The right attitude can lead to empowerment

A young girl walks on the lonely street, unhappy with herself. She is not beautiful like others are. "My friends have boyfriends and I do not. They are happy. Since I am not beautiful, I have no boyfriend." 

A strong breeze blows against her face and her silky hair starts dancing. It says to her: "Be like me my child, go with the flow and you will glow." The breeze teaches her to have an attitude which will lift her beyond mere physical beauty.

The breeze is constantly moving; so to move with the vastness of life without getting stuck, be like it, constantly move. The breeze says to her: "I do not move for happiness but out of happiness. I do not dance for happiness but out of happiness. A youth should learn this art to operate from happiness and not for happiness. Happiness is an attitude. To be a winner in life is also an attitude."

Your attitude is more important than facts for the right attitude can empower you. When you are empowered, you are bigger than a problem rather than a victim to a problem, and living in such a space makes you a winner. An easy task becomes difficult when you have a poor attitude. A difficult task becomes challenging when you have a good attitude. 

Change your body posture. A trainer talking to students on the subject of public speaking told them: "When you talk of heaven your face must be glowing and radiating joy. Your eyes must shine and lips should reflect heaven." "What about talking of hell?" asked the student. "Your normal face is enough," replied the trainer.

Change your mind. Always entertain healthy thoughts. Positive thoughts are a great asset. A pessimist sees difficulty in an opportunity and an optimist sees opportunity in a difficulty. Understand that when one door closes another opens. Trust life. Insecurity invites you to be alert and not worried. It tells you to be creative and not complain. One has to know how to take it easy and float in life and not fight with life. You can't fight with the waves but you can learn to float.

Change your emotions. The quality of your life is the quality of your consistent emotion. When your emotion is low, just change it; think of a happy incident. Change your values. Have values that connect to goodness and connect to people. 

Follow these psychological exercises: Always stand and sit erect. "If you want to be a colonel, walk like a colonel," is an expression in the army. Keep the body posture like that of a winner. Fill your mind with positive thoughts. Keep your emotions on the top of the world. Exercise and keep the above alive in you; see and picture yourself doing this.

Lots of people fear failure, death, insecurity and rejection. Come from a commitment that failure is only postponed success. Failure is the fertiliser for success. If you bring this energy into your life, it will give you methods of handling fear of failure. Also understand that fear is a movement of thought. Thought is nothing but a movement of the mental word.

If you get identified with a fear which is actually just a thought, which again is just a word, then this identification makes you a prisoner of fear. Also, this thought-fear unconsciously pulls in the previous memories of fear and with the past fears, a snowballing effect happens.

So when fear happens, just become totally aware and don't get identified with that thought. With wordless awareness, just watch. This watching will not allow the previous fears to have a snowballing effect. This is called objective watching. You feel insecure because you have a concept of what is security and from that concept you are seeing life. Anything that does not fit that concept makes you insecure. 

If you have the spirit of adventure in you then insecurity is a great adventure for you to explore. You will have fun with that insecurity. Learn to trust that insecurity is inviting you to be creative.

--- one of my favorite article that i read...

TURMOIL

THIS IS WHAT TAKING ON N OFF THROUGH OUT MY MIND FROM LAST FEW DAYS......


things are becoming so blurred that m unable to reach out to what i wanted ...... what was there last days.. back of my mind ..what was that ,for which i was planning ...

hope its not just me who is facing this

first time in my life i am so confused .. to take up decision is it lack of self confidence or am i becoming weak mentally where is my all strength gone ...

Its tough to take the blow ,which says you just missed the thing which was almost in your hands ...cuz u were a little busy planning for the next movement. i seriously felt sick to my stomach .. m i not worth to b there ... was all the hard stuff i worked on not enough.....

emotions emotions n lot of emotions why they dont understand the logics .........

its not the first time ..... actually

i guess my reflexes are weak i take lot of time to understand n analyze and as i realize what had happened the movement slips off..

say it b the time i could have achieved  a huge reward for my work . or a lil more happiness or pride for my self or a clear understanding to a relationship....

i really don understand when v give so much to some thing how can v miss the fruits of it.... or how r v unable to make ppl understand what v actually meant ....

i was neva so upset with some ones behavior but then  it really hurts when some one, whom u believe so much react in such a way that u neva expected .... that day .. that movement of past was yukk .. too bad that i cudn't understand what was going on ....neva sitting beside someone was so unpleasant ........



 it happened that i shouted on some one for no reason.... it hurts wen u behave rudely to some one who cares u so much even though they understand u, but the guilt huhh no space for it to escape......

i am trying to take a step back but the feel inside gives a complete distressingly discomfort ...







forget forget n jus forget

start up fresh.....

b strong stand up back n work out on your flaws

hope things b fine soon....

THE ONE HALF WHO CAN COMPLETE YOU

"All our lives we search for someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance the song of heartbreak and hope all the while,wondering if somewhere,somehow there is someone searching for us."






The one who  completes you- life partner , soul mate, passionate friend may b other names...                    there are  in all 3 things  that a person search for à1 perfect sustainability. 2 name and fame 3 a very pure feeling which we all term as love..  the first 2 has a kind of end…. Wen we reach the finest line we make, assuming the goal. But the third one , it grows further even after finding it.  Love between 2 persons develops a realtion……


      A relation is something that, I would define as a growing plant. The seed starts germinating as soon as the relation starts  and this plant needs lots of care and affection to grow ........

Nothing matters once the plant becomes strong and  healthy to give you both shade and its fruits :)…    One need to be very care ful towards this little growing plant no matter who is nurturing it.. or taking care of it .. even if one of the 2 persons can have understand the needs of this plant .. things work out as smoothly as required .. as the plant grows the distances decreases ...u get more than what you give.....
There are no terms n conditions when you are in love  .. And if u intend to put some rules  …things you get in return may not be true
 One need a person who is true .. remaining things respond as u approach them… feeling and emotion don’t work on any laws .how much you show to others you get the same from them some time it get doubled or tripled .. any thing …love ,care, anger, pain… Few positives at the end… never search for someone… cuz soul mates are bound to take common path at some crossing points in our lives.. 

And don’t look for what is the best … cuz who ever comes to ur lives will b the best for you….  OMG I m becoming too optimistic these days..

TROY THE MOVIE

It’s almost 15 days of holidays and finally I found a very good movie dvd …. “troy”

I have heard the story long ago in the school but the movie experience oh my my .. it was superb .a 1 role play by the characters fantastic direction ,super-battles, jaw dropping sets . expert cinematography ….. wow wow bradpitt my god he was awesome.

The kind of battle fought, amazing how do they shoot all these I really wonder…..neva got so much involved while watching a movie…..

The story is all about very famous Trojan war… the war between the Greeks and the city of Troy after Trojan prince Paris (Orlando Bloom) falls in love with Greek princess Helen (Diane Kruger). Paris and Helen steal away to Troy, causing Helen's husband Menelaus (Brendan Gleeson) to urge his brother Agamemnon (Brian Cox) to wage war on the Trojans. 

The Greek army launches a thousand ships to the Troy beach, accompanied by the supposedly invincible Achilles (Brad Pitt). The 10-year war begins, though in Troy it only feels like a few days in the movie.

The music sequences… the love the passion.. ummmm I ‘m still not out of the movie. lol