TO THOSE SMILING EYES......

A tree is known by its fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love.
--Saint Basil

The first ride on my bicycle , my first A grade on report card...the time when my teacher expressed her confidence in me, the day i got back my watch after loosing it... the time when my friend was standing beside me to take charge of what all went wrong... and the day those unknown eyes smiled and blessed me back ... these are few small yet some positive treasures of my life that m gonna cherish  ever after... hope few more get added up to the list.

  Ever experienced the satisfaction you get after eating ample of food when you were very hungry......???

life gives you many chance to experience such moments but, it again depends on us how fortunate we are to take a step ahead.

 Me and my family v reside in a flat  the locality is quiet in slope, so when ever it rains heavily the water gets gather in our area and we have to swim to reach home back lol

it was 6.00 in the eve and raining heavily ... some how i covered a distance of 4 kilometers in 2 hours which generally takes hlf n hour or so... then when i was almost approaching home, i saw a old man may b he was at his 70s or so ... he had a big poly pack in his hand.......  stuck in the way.. completely bamboozled about the way he was supposed to take....  ... i some how  moved to ward him and asked him .. "how cud i help u uncle" .. he asked me to buy something ... pointing towards a shop which was almost  some 50 steps from ther .. god it tuk me long to make those 50 too ... but i liked the trust the old man had shown ... well i was a complete stranger and he gave away his wallet  to me so ... hehe.... i bought the things, return to the place where he was standing ... and then suddenly i dint find him there... moved off here and there  for 5 mins and sight of him relieved me...



i tuk uncle's hand asked him his address and then left him to his place ..... there was nothing that big, i did .. but after we were about to reach his place he placed his hand over my head .. those smiling eyes ... those unspoken blessings ... made me feel as if ,he returned me so much .....

this experience was far better compared to the satisfaction  u get after feeding urself  when you are very hungry!!!!

LOVELY SMILES .. FEW HUGS MANY SHAKE-HANDS AND GOOD BYE TO COLLEGE

i joined this college Four years ago.every thing was so new.. i was scared of almost every thing... 

ii was so curious, so innocent .. so childish ... lol


i still remember my first day to the college. i was nervous to get into my class room, full of unknown faces. i went right to the last bench and sat there till 5 or 6 mins. i dint even lift my head... haha .. then i slowly started talking to the ppl near to me . day by day, the num of students i interacted with got increased .soon we all became a family of same age group..

dont know how these 4 years passed by so soon .. i had enjoyed almost every thing .. each and every part of it..say it b the boring curriculum,teasing frenz, hehe..or learning to interact with people, gaining confidence ..learning to be the way you want . to encourage some 1 who is actually ur competition.consoling others and at times yourself.... motivating people .control emotions, anger and wat not .the list goes on.. i have learnt so much .


well, this is not the only change in me...there is so much that have changed in the due course of time.. but as people say change for something good is called improvement, i am loving these changes .....


and i wud thank all those ppl who were with me n against me thru out the journey in these 4 years for every thing they have done..... Medhu u were n u ll always b the part of this... ahh really yaar, i jus close my eyes for a few secs n there are so many flashes ... so many memories gud, bad, frustrating, exciting, exhausting hmmm.. thanks for all these memories either

and now this last day i was staring at each and every corner .. talking to almost every one i have found .. as if i didnt wanted to miss a single glimpse of any 1 in my frens list ... and there were lots of hopes in me that these last few moments stay back for some more time..


                                  




surely, i ll miss that environment.. of carelessness .. friendship..caring frens.. love .. eagerness for almost nothing ... examz those pre result tensions and post result tensions.. lol.... our so called classes, lectures and of course our lecturers .. every thing will always remain as a sweet memory ...even though few things were not tat sweet ..

 love u  my frens
 may u all guyz get wateva u desire for ....
god bless u all


----- garima..

The right attitude can lead to empowerment

A young girl walks on the lonely street, unhappy with herself. She is not beautiful like others are. "My friends have boyfriends and I do not. They are happy. Since I am not beautiful, I have no boyfriend." 

A strong breeze blows against her face and her silky hair starts dancing. It says to her: "Be like me my child, go with the flow and you will glow." The breeze teaches her to have an attitude which will lift her beyond mere physical beauty.

The breeze is constantly moving; so to move with the vastness of life without getting stuck, be like it, constantly move. The breeze says to her: "I do not move for happiness but out of happiness. I do not dance for happiness but out of happiness. A youth should learn this art to operate from happiness and not for happiness. Happiness is an attitude. To be a winner in life is also an attitude."

Your attitude is more important than facts for the right attitude can empower you. When you are empowered, you are bigger than a problem rather than a victim to a problem, and living in such a space makes you a winner. An easy task becomes difficult when you have a poor attitude. A difficult task becomes challenging when you have a good attitude. 

Change your body posture. A trainer talking to students on the subject of public speaking told them: "When you talk of heaven your face must be glowing and radiating joy. Your eyes must shine and lips should reflect heaven." "What about talking of hell?" asked the student. "Your normal face is enough," replied the trainer.

Change your mind. Always entertain healthy thoughts. Positive thoughts are a great asset. A pessimist sees difficulty in an opportunity and an optimist sees opportunity in a difficulty. Understand that when one door closes another opens. Trust life. Insecurity invites you to be alert and not worried. It tells you to be creative and not complain. One has to know how to take it easy and float in life and not fight with life. You can't fight with the waves but you can learn to float.

Change your emotions. The quality of your life is the quality of your consistent emotion. When your emotion is low, just change it; think of a happy incident. Change your values. Have values that connect to goodness and connect to people. 

Follow these psychological exercises: Always stand and sit erect. "If you want to be a colonel, walk like a colonel," is an expression in the army. Keep the body posture like that of a winner. Fill your mind with positive thoughts. Keep your emotions on the top of the world. Exercise and keep the above alive in you; see and picture yourself doing this.

Lots of people fear failure, death, insecurity and rejection. Come from a commitment that failure is only postponed success. Failure is the fertiliser for success. If you bring this energy into your life, it will give you methods of handling fear of failure. Also understand that fear is a movement of thought. Thought is nothing but a movement of the mental word.

If you get identified with a fear which is actually just a thought, which again is just a word, then this identification makes you a prisoner of fear. Also, this thought-fear unconsciously pulls in the previous memories of fear and with the past fears, a snowballing effect happens.

So when fear happens, just become totally aware and don't get identified with that thought. With wordless awareness, just watch. This watching will not allow the previous fears to have a snowballing effect. This is called objective watching. You feel insecure because you have a concept of what is security and from that concept you are seeing life. Anything that does not fit that concept makes you insecure. 

If you have the spirit of adventure in you then insecurity is a great adventure for you to explore. You will have fun with that insecurity. Learn to trust that insecurity is inviting you to be creative.

--- one of my favorite article that i read...

TURMOIL

THIS IS WHAT TAKING ON N OFF THROUGH OUT MY MIND FROM LAST FEW DAYS......


things are becoming so blurred that m unable to reach out to what i wanted ...... what was there last days.. back of my mind ..what was that ,for which i was planning ...

hope its not just me who is facing this

first time in my life i am so confused .. to take up decision is it lack of self confidence or am i becoming weak mentally where is my all strength gone ...

Its tough to take the blow ,which says you just missed the thing which was almost in your hands ...cuz u were a little busy planning for the next movement. i seriously felt sick to my stomach .. m i not worth to b there ... was all the hard stuff i worked on not enough.....

emotions emotions n lot of emotions why they dont understand the logics .........

its not the first time ..... actually

i guess my reflexes are weak i take lot of time to understand n analyze and as i realize what had happened the movement slips off..

say it b the time i could have achieved  a huge reward for my work . or a lil more happiness or pride for my self or a clear understanding to a relationship....

i really don understand when v give so much to some thing how can v miss the fruits of it.... or how r v unable to make ppl understand what v actually meant ....

i was neva so upset with some ones behavior but then  it really hurts when some one, whom u believe so much react in such a way that u neva expected .... that day .. that movement of past was yukk .. too bad that i cudn't understand what was going on ....neva sitting beside someone was so unpleasant ........



 it happened that i shouted on some one for no reason.... it hurts wen u behave rudely to some one who cares u so much even though they understand u, but the guilt huhh no space for it to escape......

i am trying to take a step back but the feel inside gives a complete distressingly discomfort ...







forget forget n jus forget

start up fresh.....

b strong stand up back n work out on your flaws

hope things b fine soon....