I am Sorry for my memory loss problem :D

"Hello ....... Excuse Me "
"hmmm " A voice woke me up .
" Madam if you can move your bag i would like to sit .." said a good looking guy.

"Please sit" I said taking my bag on my lap ... i wondered and checked out of window of bus 10 H .. i was at SR nagar
" Did i disturb your sleep " he asked with a smile
"No" i said , he was almost of my age.. and his eyes were very familiar to me ..I guess i feel this very often whenever i look at a cute guy .Lol
While i was thinking deeply about my plans for day after . I felt we were sitting too close ahem ahem ...well i could feel his mobile when it started vibrating hehe

i moved aside and he picked up his mob and started.
"Hello ...... hey ,hi....... no am on my way ........................ what oh really ...... blah blah  blah .................... bye dear mmm luv ya " that was the conversation....No wonder it was so clear to whom he is talking. I thought
I halted thoughts about my plans and started thinking why In this whole world almost every one is commited. The Generation today is so fast isn't it and i feel i don't belong to this generation i should have been born 25 years earlier ..............................
... few days back whie i was talking to a friend of mine about 5 years younger to me , she said 'guyz never understand her'.. she was very upset with her break up  and i had to console her on her 3rd break up LOL Well i had no other answer i jus said  ...dear you need to move on.. I smiled to my self

And Right at that moment, it was embarrasing to see that the guy beside me was staring at me...I turned my head towards window for a while and when i turned back he was still in same posture smiling this time


" Damn!! are you trying to scare me ? " i asked.
" No, no why what made you think that " he replied

There was a silence of five mins  and then after few mins

" You sleepy " the guy distracted me again.
"No why" i was tough with my voice this time
"Nothing jus wanted to ask ki ...How are you Garima"
"you .... mm.. you know me .." I was startled, hearing my name I turned to him and was looking at his face
" I don't know whether you remember me or not" he said looking at his mobile.. i was confused then started thinking do i know him .. do i
"Hey yes you have changed a lot " i could figure out a bit that he was from my class in +2
" haha yes ,  ... " he had a very big smile this time
" You are from narayana ?? right and you used to sit in last but one bench  " i started recollecting.
"yes , great you remember me ... you know i need to say thanks to you "
" for what ?" i enquired.
" You were very helpfull while mathematics exam that day  :D" ( giggles)

there was a long conversation.... we were talking about friends from our class, our lecturers and so mnay other things

"hey my stop is here ... bye garima it was nice to see an old fren like this, you haven't changed much " he stood.
"bye " i said ...

I was totally amazed.. god this guy has changed so much lol i mean it was tough to recognize a thin slim guyz in a total changed avtar of good build body and a  mustache hehhehehe

"keep smiling " he said while getting down at his bus stop


After 5 mins i realized that i don't remember his name, and i forgot to ask :-O



--------------------------------------------------------------Every experience teaches you some thing ---
 Lesson learnt  : Next time you find a very old friend, atleast ask his/her phone number so that u cud b fortunate to collect their name as well :P

My Old paintings :)

The first one :)

This was when i was learning how to make many colors from 4 of them :)

Cute na !!!!

Ahem Ahem 

And my favorite one  

I know they aren't that good but i loved painting them ....... hehe hope i add more :)

A Cup of Taste less coffee

After having a really tough day, I am here blogging with a mug of really taste less coffee :P 

after reading few of my old blogs , memorizing and re-living all those moments, i felt i should add one more .





Its totally true and I completely agree, that though life at times becomes routine, the time never repeats itself. Even though some things happens to us, for the second or third time.but,the effect never remains to be the same !!!

Its been almost a month since i joined my work place .
the journey from a student's life, to a would- be professional was so lovely .I've loved and lived each and every part thoroughly! i have enjoyed commiting tons of mistakes and learnt so much from most of them ...... !!!

And i feel so good about my past. whatever it has been,it was totally wonderful.So when ever i feel low... all i need to do is to close my eyes and remember those few good and funny moments. Interesting past isn't it? i would rather say my mind never lets me feel sad or depressed. now .... even if some thing is odd, my stress, tension or whatever we name our tough situations, never stay long ..... i some how tried to find a way out ..or may be I am lucky enough to find people who can pull me out of the situation very smoothly :)

CAUTION : Folks if you are not free and very busy read the remaining at your own risk ....



bcuz there will not be much interesting things for you below :P . so don't blame me if you don't like any of my life fundas or fall in love with me after reading all this lol



Funda 1
Never try to be happy !!
Just be happy. because, its your life and no matter what happens in your life, you are totally responsible for your next step :) .... so if you are happy its easy to take further steps :D

Funda 2
Never be sorry !
Being sorry and saying sorry are two completely different modes or phases.being Sorry-You are just thinking about what all went wrong || saying Sorry - You have realised what went wrong and are ready to correct it. Committing mistakes is quiet normal ... and while doing this knowingly or unknowingly we may hurt others or self .. never think too much to apologize, accept the bad in you in a proper way !!
Accept it and don't forget to correct yourself ....

Funda 3
Follow your hobby . Like every thing is important, enjoying life in the best way , is equally important.
keeping yourself busy with good things is so good and indeed entertaining. Feel free to learn things. if, you ever had a dream of learning to dance ,sing or whatever .. go ahead. because no one is ever that old for the learning process.
take some time to enjoy doing things that your heart loves to ..... because no one else can do that for us.

Funda 4

Don't be shy of expressing your self .feel free to talk out your heart when you like any thing .. feel free to compliment. don't think too much ..

"ya but do choose words carefully :P ;)" but never leave a chance to compliment others .because every one feels good about compliments. right !!.... feel free to sing and dance too... laugh out your heart as loud as possible :D.

Funda 5

Never search for mistakes in others ... don't find space to criticize others for the wrong causes (until and unless it is for their own good).. because ,what goes around comes around ...

Funda 6

Depressed ?? what has happened can never be changed.keep your self away from all those bad thoughts ...

Hard times come generally to test you to find out how harder you are.

think about all the positive things ,fill your head with maximum of nice memories. that is one of the best ways to be optimistic!!
as few say
" Remember the good in people Forget the bad ,is one way to be good ... "









Funda 7

Keep yourself calm in tough situation .... remember , no matter how big the argument be, it ends if one person could handle the situation with a calm mind and make the other person understand whats exactly went wrong !!












Funda 8

Don't be scared of anything :) , you can only live once............ make best out of every chance you get :) !!
" be very much serious about your work and opportunities until you face them (this is to be passionate ) ... once you are done with your work, relax !!do not think much about it or the result ( this is to face the results.. no matter what the result is. take failure and success in same way ) because success or failure both brings in many more opportunities where in you need a stable mind to face them again :-/

Funda 9

Fall in love when ever you want to. falling in love or feeling very good about some one or just liking someone trying to keep him /her happy ..... making some effort to make them smile .... keeps you very happy and i would rather say very energetic. you can always remain active and attentive mood to gather attention


Hmmm, while writing this blog I learnt one more funda of life - : generally things or situations are not that bad.its on us, how we take them ...For ME The day was hectic or i can say really tiring. but the coffee was good, "giggles" the last sip was really tasty or may be my mood has just changed the taste of coffee :)

here, i remember a nice quote , don't know who wrote it though :P


"Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. Love the people who treat you right. Forget about the ones who don't. Believe that everything happens for a reason."



well, here i conclude this blog , hope you liked it and even if you dint :P

have a long and lovely life and may god bless you ! All the best.

Finding Solace.?? or making life complicated ??

"If you think your whole life is going wrong
just because so much of it is going wrong,
then you're wrong.
Mostly when things go wrong,
they're meant to go wrong,
so we can outgrow what we have to outgrow."

I completely agree that life is generally not as simple as it appears to be. there are lots of ups and downs and so many tough situations we come across every now and then..

Most of us believe that life is all about learning. We learn from our mistakes.but then why most of us give up even before making few attempts more to find the solution?

suicide / drinking /smoking can never be a solution to the one who is actually intending to find a way out !!!


The other day, i was reading an article which said:


->Smoking kills 900,000 people every year in India, and unless corrective action is taken soon that number will increase to 1 million smoking-related deaths annually by 2010 and beyond

->Smoking may soon account for 20 percent of all male deaths and 5 percent of all female deaths among Indians around the age of 30

-> In India, smoking is the leading cause of preventable deaths. And a major part of the tobacco-smoking population of the country is the youth.

"It is truly remarkable that one single factor, namely smoking, which is entirely preventable, accounts for nearly one in 10 of all deaths in India,”

WELL, HERE I DEDICATE THE REST OF MY BLOG TO ALL THOSE YOUNG SMOKERS ....

so when enquired about the reasons for smoking... most youngsters say that the transition from adolescence to adulthood when they join college ,moving away from parents and living on their own, they feel liberated and totally empowered to make/ take decisions .there is an urge to try new things and this urge is very high during this age so most of them smoke their first cigarette in the college.....

and few others follow what would i call "social smoking "( smoking occasionally) because they believe that occasional smoking is of no harm which actually makes them prone to the addiction

...........some smoke because their friends smoke!! or because they feel that cool factor increases with smoke.

while some others have so called intense reasons such as "cigarette is a stress buster"
"i am finding solutions to almost all of my problems" and "i am finding solace from this hectic world", "cigarette relaxes our mind from this peer pressure" being the ther set of reasons. so, are they actually reducing pressure or increasing the complexities in their lives?..the thing is, smoking never ends any ones problem. it is that people try to forget few things temporarily.

when you smoke,
you reduce your life by 20 to 25 years!!
fine, if you want to die young,this is the best way to realise your ambition. but it is totally disgusting to suffer with bad-breath ( god knows why people like smelling like an ash-tray), damaged teeth, all respiratory problems, poor lung functioning, slower growth, poor physical fitness, heart diseases (strokes), lung cancer, emotional and psychological unbalance ...not only this Smoking is also associated with some more risky behaviors such as poor eye sight, drug abuse ,engaging in unprotected sex etc. smoking has a direct negative effect on sexuality of men. smoking also causes hair fall and blindness
so u die young as an old man.

life is really essential. every thing is possible only if you are alive. give a chance to your self and quit smoking.
it may not be that easy at the early stages but yes, it is you who need to take steps for the betterment of your life..


okay okay!! now stop cursing me :P

life is to live....
and as it is written on most of the cigarette packs " LIVE LIFE KING SIZE "

:) cheers to life .