Monday, August 13, 2012

Why is it so important to be LOVED

Life …..It gives so much of excitement, loads of courage... Shaky waves to experience peaks of trills..... Calmness of loneliness, pains of emptiness and then it goes on…It’s a complete roller-coaster ride.


Every small thing happening around transfers some emotion into you, or may be some sort of feeling

For an example - When you see a couple immensely into love.. then either you fly away ... wuffffffff...... into past, imagining some good memories or you become upset remembering few bad ones and at times excited thinking about future lol :-D.

Why is it so important to be in love or to be loved, sometimes I conclude saying...
                               We are hungry ... maybe we all are always for love.. True love....

No matter, from where it comes to us. We are in a consistent search of it; we bow a bit towards people who provide it to us. Be it a person from your family or your whole family. your kid who cheer you up  by his innocence , mom who worries for you for no reason, a life partner/ lover who gives almost everything unconditionally or conditionally :-P…..a friend who teases you and then pleases you, a teacher who is always concerned about you, ….. Love is always pure and perfect in itself, no matter in which form it comes to you.
 You never need to compare it or measure it.

People fall in love instantly or maybe they go on for trial and error ;-). Will he/she be the right person I can continue loving for my whole life :-P…. This mostly happens with a classmate or a colleague, a Friend; long or short term.. You are so busy with other stuff that you try finding connections nearby.

Some time I wonder how people tend to search for love on social networking, or just they are too busy with their schedule that these so called online friends comes on easy reach and handy to them J.

  I am not against to making friendship online and… ahem you know what I mean, but you never know that how many times you go on trials to hit the bulls eye without knowing if the person you had a good friendship online were actually serious about you. Neither do you be sure of being serious and with whom actually you were serious (well people genuinely go for a mass trials :-P ;making friendship with X num of people).



Based on few thought which I expressed above I am writing a story ….

And before you drop reading or you continue……. thank you for reading my posts J


Here's an extract of a story I started writing.....Titled

 "Well it’s a roller-coaster ride"



She was persuading her reluctant thoughts when someone called her from back
“Hey … It is you”

Trying audaciously to come out of the buzz of her thoughts she saw a familiar face. The voice seemed pleasant and sweet it helped her to pull herself out of the bewildered compass. 

“ Riya ! Oh my god it’s you … you look great.. How have you been?”

She felt a quiver of shock inside her chest to hear her name, at the same time was trying hard to remember the one who was standing infront of her with such a warm smile. 
 She was worried of making him despair by not recollecting any memory about him, who was continuosly speaking to her. But other than the smile which reminded her a kid who met her years ago, she couldn't figure out anythingelse.

He Interupted her vague though's, "Riya are you all right, you seem lost .What is it dear "

She was completely clueless. Finally she gave up and asked " I am sorry, Do we know each other ?"

There was a silence of 2 mins and then he said " Well I am the one whom you asked to forget you." 

she glanced his face one more time.

He repeated  "yea you asked me to forget you,  I have no idea why you did all that, but it was hard to forget you and I still love you "

She was dumbstruck with the words spoken by a complete stranger or may be he wasn't a stranger. Deep inside her heart she was bang with a flash of guilt, she felt as if she'll broke into tears. The stranger left her again into further deeper vague of thoughts........  !!!

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Some more paintings..



Well this one was the first when I restarted discovering about my love towards colors Loved painting this .....my Aim was to show, No matter what the problem is you always need a friend who can just cheer you up and force in some strength in you to face them :)



This was when I wanted to gift something to one of my very close friend ...



Hmmm one more silhouette to my list :) 



well I guess I need to work on how to draw faces and features properly :-S ..


Will Add more in here soon ..... :)


-- Cheers 
Garima singh....







Friday, June 15, 2012

Whenever I am hurt :(


Whenever I am hurt, I understand two things very clearly
1. I still own my little soft heart
2. I gave permission to someone to hurt it- Its My mistake.. :( :'(

-Gary

I strongly believe that always misunderstandings ..tough times occurs between friends and these are all part of any relationship. There is nothing wrong to bow a little contradicting your ego if you want to sustain the relation. If you go on blaming the other person then there is no reason to hold on with that person, and in a way you are hurting yourself and the other person as well. Rather end things up or just forget, things are never going to work anyway.

As I always say that tough/ unmanageable conditions happens But its important to concentrate on solution rather than discussing and elongating the problem itself

Yet...Cheers :)
--Garima singh

Saturday, June 9, 2012

KyON ? nA BOLE mose mohan KyoN?


Trust is a big thing and understanding is another.... If you carry both, for a person then that person is surely a true friend of yours.

These friends you never know, when they become important to you, you love spending time with them ... you feel lighter when you are around them. It really doesn't matter whether they consider you important or not. Its never important to be center of attraction among them, the leader or head to whom  the rest listen, you just love to get teased , you enjoy teasing them, annoying them, pleasing them and at times making them feel they are the very special people in your life :-) and  I am lucky to have a group of such people with me.

At times it happens that you become unhappy with that person leavin u behind for the  timebeing or for the rest of life.. .. right !
and when that person doesn't understand, the reason behind you being agitated or disturbed..... you feel more depressed. Most of us tend to get irritated and angry and the rest goes worse - we fight with our loved ones and situation gets more complicated :-/ .

I don't know if in these conditions its easy to talk, But yes, One thing what I am sure about is - Its easier to stay calm when you are angry ..... stay away if you can't hold the agitation.. caused by detachment of someone. At times under agitation you loose your control on your head and words spoken to some one who is important to you can harm your relationship. The further damages would be a little long lull between the two person. You are left with..... if I dint...  I shouldn't have....... why did I ... kind of things :-D

Readers are open to provide their thoughts and advises :-)




Most of the troubles comes from misunderstandings so my .....last thought of the day

“We're all born with selfish desires, so we can all relate to those feelings in others. But kindness is something made individually by each person...so it's easy to misunderstand when others are trying to be kind to you."-- NATSUKI

 -- Cheers
Garima singh