There's some of Romeo's romance in me... I romanticise a lot of things in my mind...
--Leonardo DiCaprio
I’ve
No Idea why am I beginning with this quote, however I am pretty sure that I do
echo what leo says he is one of my favorite actor’s and I love him onscreen
I am a
fiction lover too, yet I write a lot on things which are completely true but are
moulded in a form of fiction, Romance is
a fiction that don’t really needs everything to be in real or does it , well let’s
find it out!
Here
on I am going to talk about people in their tweens, that don’t restrict people
above or below age to read this I am just addressing so cuz may be I am at my
20’s ..
At 20s
there are basically 3 GOALS we go on striving for
1.
Money
2.
Fame
3. Success
The
Order of the 3 may change for different people, yet we all work hard for the
same and at time so hard that we almost forget that we aren’t doing anything
else than working and learning, the consequences often for most of us is that ,we
behave as if we are lonely, we feel bored and over stressed.
At
your 20’s the best thing for deviation comes in the form of attraction towards
something which has nothing to do with your work or the above 3 Goals
Often
its love, romance or just a kindling crush on someone.
And as
the - trend setting generation is going on its superfast way, with almost have less/no
time for anything else apart Working and making money….. a romantic relationship
with someone from your office , say it your colleague comes really handy……
Right!
I am
sure most of you might have heard these lines ..
“ I
really wished that guy was single I would have been a perfect match for him, I
pity his choice :P”
“ Dude!
Stop staring her , she is going to be my future wife ; And your friend wonders
if you even know her name :D”
The
One I often hear “She / he is a complete marriage material “ sounds really
funny to me
Few conversations
which I overheard from other tables
.
àWork place gives you good options.
àWork place gives you good options.
Mr A: Hey Dude did you look at
her the one in blue Tees man she looks too good!
MrB : you need to go for an eye check up check that
girl two table next to her I bet you might have never witnessed something more
adorable :P
àWell we often get even few type of sites where a flop show is carried on very well.
Miss K: You mean you like him
Miss L : I … ummm yeh, but I
proposed him , but it dint work out.
Miss K : So now ?
Miss L : Nothing we are still
good friends and everythings fine
Miss K : really ? I see you
guyz even avoid eye contact :P
.
.
.
“You know what mr X and miss Y often
spend good time together ,be it for a tea break, discussions some outing blah
blah..There is something fishy going on (giggles) “
“ you know I always see her going taking a long way to the pantry, seems like
she comes over to check if he is available at his desk , poor girl seemed to be
crushed lolzz“
“Have you ever seen him working, he
comes just to chat with her all day”
àWe
all hear these sort of rumours often in offices well these cozy conversation
seems interesting don’t they well nothing wrong spicing up things ;) and often
we do spice em up :P
Ahhh i think I am exaggerating on this..Anyways We can see many office colleagues
marrying each other huhh ??..
You
see long work schedule, spending long time in the same place with the opposite gender,
where there is very less time to relax what else can you expect: P
So Concluding here ...workplace is or can be a place where most of
couples meet. Unlike dating someone, here you get ample amount of time to know
the person and there is nothing wrong in being friendly to a colleague.
Finding your true partner or soul mate this way is
too good. And we genuinely see many of these relationship works however …Here are
some tips –
- How
to realize you are falling in love?
If in case you spend long hours with
your friend (a single person of opposite sex) sharing on your personal information
lunch and a lot more at the same time if you find the other person shows equal
interest and enthuse for it , then for sure you are falling in love with him or
her
- How
to stop yourself if you feel you are falling in love with the wrong person?
It’s not very simple but the best way
is to revert things step by step, As everyone does stop meeting him or her
personally make sure you people are in a group , disclose your feelings in a
very polite manner, make sure that you need your job and act accordingly .
- Often
we tend to share information about our feelings on someone, with people around
us make sure until or unless things are positive at the end to keep things a
secrets, It a corporate world and it’s often easy to become the subject of
gossip. You see there are often people who find the two of you in a lift and don’t
take much time to imagine the sequence of (baho mein chale aao)or some romantic song.
- A
no is always a NO, if you are unable to bear with each other it avoid
situations to come across each other.
- Never
fall in for someone who is married, No matter how much you like each other.
- If
you have problems with your current relationship or past relationship, just for
the sake of new air doesn't switch to a new relationship it often doesn't work.
Love has its own sort of gravity and Falling in love
is a natural thing It keeps you super active and very positive, so fall in love
again and over again… No harm.. However be alert and smart enough in expressing
things !!!
Cheers
Garima Singh :)
