Start being fair, being fairer isn’t that necessary !!!!

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Miss A : You are such a talented dancer and you are on side stage 

Miss B : Oh dear what can I do,Its my fate, this dark complexion. :(

Miss A : Tadaaaa take this cream use for 30 days 

and see what wonder can it do 

 Conclusion : - Miss B becomes centre of attraction after using the beauty product.

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Mr H shows all his talent in acting, but no Director or People acknowledge his hard work and all of a sudden, Mr S comes in the scene..... saying "you need this beauty product" … and TADAAA Mr H becomes a Super star

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Another similar one with a enthusiastic cricket commentator , who then becomes fair, only to bag a job as commentator beside K Srikkanth. 

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One more One more … A guy being the interviewee can ask questions to his interviewers and impress them only because he is fair … and his fairness gives him super confidence to do so…. how funny 

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And the last one

A guy breaks up with his long time girlfriend to find a new one, and then when he find his X who eventually becomes fair post using some beauty fairness cream finds out that he still love her …. Man Awful…..

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We have been seeing such commercial day after,  Its not that I am offending people who are fair , or those who use such beauty products, but only one question hits hard to my head over and over again, when I see such concepts being used in commercials  which are frequently telecasted. 

I mean .. what sense that concept makes, where you show that a dancer, if has a lil darker complexion doesn’t fit good for being on centre stage ??? or if a girl has dull wheatish skin can’t be a good commentator, And your color makes it all to big screens or gives you confidence …. this is all nothing but a weird state of making color discrimination. Color has nothing to do with your confidence nor with your talent neither with any relation ship , No Idea why indians or may be huge set of people mad about the fairer looking skin.

WANTED BRIDE WITH VERY FAIR COMPLEXION

Ever gone through a male matrimonial ad.. 80 to 85 % have this line in common out of rest 15%, 10% would omit the word VERY but rest would certainly be included. No matter what complexion the guy carry.. and ahaaaaan this is not for the groom or for their prestige its issue with the next generation … the next breed needs to be fair, No matter if they are stubborn or ruthless yet fair is must. I wonder who will talk about the colors in future decades though, but yes color in current generation is a very big criteria.

 Come on! THE NEW GENERATION when are we going to change our thinking on this aspect?

As most of us prefer kajol over any other heroine, no matter if she is dark, she is talented and super kool on the screen.  I can skip a katrina’s movie but kajol would never be a miss. 

Just like when we make new friends we don’t set criterion of looks, here what matters is bonding and nature of the other person, why doesn’t the same thing been carried well in other cases?

Anyways I really hope some day things would change and even our mindset.

Non of us can evade discrimination it starts as soon as you see yourself in mirror, its says this is you and they are all there who come in others, however we can definitely avoid difference we don’t live in mirror, we are not reflections we all are humans.

--Gary

Cheers :)

Garima Singh

~Beauty lies within~

The Wrapper

Often being judgmental is so facile that we tend to be so. You see a person, and then you observe him of her for quiet some time and try making out, how and what the person is like (strangers are not included in this case) ! This is totally normal too and an art of being human. We decide things based on some instincts some pre assumed perceptions may be.

But what if you are allowed to be with this person for more than provided time, Say long long time , May be in initial few days we will still go with the primitive practice of framing up the characteristics of this person and sketching in filling, colors putting stress on our head checking out things apart from looks - Certainly Behaviour comes first in the row which Often stays normal and actuals, after the first few hours, how they react in different situation, their high and lows, angers and ambiguities, stress and pains , pressure and pleasures.

I agree that understanding a complete stranger takes loads of time and effort, or may be not as time passes. And as time moves on you move on to a more comfortable zone where feeling are replaced by there behavior, For you what this person feels become more crucial than how he/ she behaves.

Concluding here … as the journey never ends and the point you start introspection its start of another phase ;)

“ Never decide the taste of a candy or importance of the gift by checking the wrapper, cuz neither the aroma, sweetness and the pleasure of having it be felt till the wrapper is unfold”  

Cheers 

Garima Singh

Things are not always as they seem; the first appearance deceives many.

&  (though I offend a single day being celebrated for love ) Happy Valentines day :D

The DISTANCES..******Doorie******. :P :D ;)

               "Distance means so little when someone means so much." 

While we were busy in our own buzz

May Be, These Distances chooses us

To teach me how to miss someone, 

and to hangup though am never done

To count time that was past, when I met you last 

 Against the time, I will see you again

To tell you how much I believe you

and to tell you how much I need you

The fights, quarrels , fun and discussions we overlooked

and here we are an year away to when we were hooked 

~ Garima

---- Its 28th OCT 2013
Loads of Love Cheers :)

DEPARTURE !

“You never really leave a place or person you love, part of them you take with you ,leaving a part of yourself behind.”

TIME it runs, so fast, that so much just happens and before you could figure out and take a note of it, there is some other thing happening with you….. People come to your life spend some time and then they leave. One should never miss a chance to tell them how important they were no matter if they were with you for a long term or a short while, Never forget to tell them how much they meant to you if they really did!

Cuz once that moment is lost, ummmm it would be something like stale food you may try to gather things, add on some ingredients back however  you will definitely miss the right and apt flavour. 

Friends are such flavours of life if they aren’t part of you, then definitely you are missing a big recipe in your life, and rest whatever you have will be tasteless without them.

I would say I am lucky to have a bunch of such people with me in almost every walk & every stage of my life ..Reminiscing and living those old memories the way we used to spend time together, those Stupid conversation which never had any conclusions ever, Those pointless quarrel , fights, crazy pranks, funky ideas…  swirl me up with hell lot of emotions and while in course I go on changing my facial expressions ,I am often stunned with people around staring me.

 For me Departures were always the tough part … but it’s going to be further miserable and unbearable this time. I know I still have time yet as people say and of course it’s true time just fly wuffff….. You never even make it up how you were wondering that you need to give an interview and then u r actually working in there, the same company and completed close to 3 years.

Sometimes there comes a full stop to many things , Nothings for permanent ! haaa I did had the set of goodie good memories.. yet I hope I could add some more with you both Deep and Ashi  you guys are the best I could have ever asked for ..

This is for you both Loads of love

Thats a CLose up Ad smile :D

Haha I took this when his mouth was overloaded and he wasnt able to chew rofl

We were cube mates for quiet a few months :D 

Man this guy looks thin :P bhery thin :P

Ahhh  I am going too nostalgic  Wondering all the while why ….. Hmm it’s my best friend’s wedding!!

And She is gonna go really far ………………………………………………………………………………………

Let me get a funny story to you guyz who are still reading lolzz

Me and she we met in an interview, after the first round was cleared my friends were disqualified, I was left alone and same was the case with her, I went to her and started and funny discussion which related the people around us .. after a while we saw except for us rest everyone in the hall were preparing some JAVA stuff and as usual we lolled …. Suddenly we were called up for round 2.

After the interview we were again in same mode of passing some stupid comments on fellow participants and giggling around, somehow we both were sure that we aren’t going to clear the round 2…..reason? -> we were not good with JAVA stuff. Neither we were bothered, we already had a back up now don’t ask me what was the back up.  In this course of those 2 days we became so close to each other that we decided we‘ll opt this job, IF ONLY both of us are going to be selected .

 To our shock àwe both were and since then deepu and me we are the same Well I m talking about the bonding between us ….:P

I am going to miss her a lot …. So for you DEEPS take it straight ..do keep in touch and it’s a serious warning.

Cheeeeeeeers  to my besties

Extra ee for my Jiju.

--Love

Garima singh