Wish .. I Was a BOY! :(

People generally say that behind every girls favorite song, is an untold story"

Hmmm then i would like to share mine 

main jahaan rahoon

main kahin bhi hoon

teri yaad saath hai

kisi se kahoon

ke nahi kahoon

yeh jo dil ki baat hai

kehne ko saath apane ek duniya chalti hai

per chhupke is dil mein tanhaayi palti hai

bas yaad saath hai

teri yaad saath hai

koi nayi duniya ke naye rango mein khush rehta hai

koi sab kuch paake bhi yeh mann hi mann kehta hai

I am standing here at the point where every next turn of mine effects my whole headed future....

Sometimes I try to understand the situations, no matter how bad it is, I try to find the solutions, enjoy the course but there are often situations that frustrate me completely, I mean seriously, I feel surrounded with pathetic circumstances, you don't know what to do? Why things happening with you. 

Well again that's So called life is, It can never be a smooth highway ... rather it’s all messed up.

At times so messy that you don't find where the path moves and where to take turn, all you can do is take the charge of cleaning the area and clear your path put efforts and your understandings to move forward. Everyone's rushing out there you can't take the risk of stopping at any point :(

But, how long! Where will this end. 

70% of my request always go bluntly with NO as its answer, Certainly 3 out 5 the reason behind it be that you are a girl. I know society is developing, people and their thinking is as well but yet there is no end to this reason that we get for all those NO's we get for our requests.

I agree These NO's are good for us and given to us from those who have got lot of concerns for us. But... :(

The desires they are all collapsed and zeal get diminished by these NO's . And again I have NO Idea what to do to stop these NO's I wish i was a boy. At least to enjoy a careless, carefree life. With again NO restrictions. No Timing. No unnecessary tension.

I envy you all guys you roam at nights with your friends; No one checks times for you. You have hell lot of your friends and no one dare to ask you the list. You or your dear ones don't have to be worried if you go alone anywhere. 

Why is that you get lot of choice to decide when you want to be committed, when you are ready to take responsibilities. You don't have to leave your parents your friends your place your lifestyle... whatever why is that expected from girls.......   The list goes on...

But if

I want to do something - A question arises WHY? 

I start doing something many more Questionaires WHAT for?

----- My third Poem 

Trembling somehow, when I reached some height, 

It was lovely to see those faces with joy,

yet I had to put my steps back, hearing the cry,

 "It’s too far my child", you are not a boy

Why everyone discriminate so much

I don't feel there is any need as such.

Boys you are lucky, you may be strong but you do annoy :-P

Whatever I am still good ,and thank god am not a boy 

-----Garima Singh

Sau dard hain Sau rahatein :)

sau dard hain,sau rahatein.............sab mila dilnashin........ek tuhi nahieeeeee.......

Kaisi chahat hai ye ,ya hai koi pagalpan
Kya pyar hai, kya kabhi pyar tha?
Jane kya dekha tha teri ankhon mai
Jo Hume teri har baat pe aietbaar tha

Unki ek jhalak ke didaar mai,
kut gaye kitnehi pal intezaar mai
thi katha kya, koun jaane
hum befikar they itne pyar mai.

Raat ki un tanhaayiyon se pucha
kya kabhi laut kar aayenge woh
Badale karvatein kayi par ..
paya bus unki yaadon ko .

Badalte rahe hum karwat sari raat iss kardar 

din ke unjaale toh hue,  par unke khayalo ne peecha na choda !!

Why to Preach things that U can't Practice :-P

The greatest success is being yourself, generally we become what we pretend to be, so be natural, be original don't be a copy.

And please stop Copy-pasting things that you even forget you read some where :-P
Start Practicing rather than preaching as it makes your life accustomed , defined by your ideals, not the negation of others. Dare to the level of your capability then go beyond to a higher level.

Don't do things that make you look cool/interesting or some stupid or similar thing , this is all MASQUERADE ..... I assume you are just misleading yourself, no idea if you are fooling others too but you are in a way faking yourself.

If it’s a part of following someone / something its different, because in that case you will add-in some of your instincts to improve yourself.

Well I have a small example over here -

In this era of social networking where certainly people have no time to sit with their family and share their happiness, we keep liking, commenting and complimenting others on their wall post or photographs:-P
Okay Okay, am diverting from my topic

So I had this example - there was a beautiful message (video) shared by one of my friend aaaah seriously lovely one which talks about why relationships break due to some misunderstandings :) and formulas to walk out of such situations.

Four of my friends shared it on their walls and I guess it was 40 odds who liked it, Now one of them just had their break up, and one other is having some issues, for ahem no serious reason.

You guys might be wondering - what the >&g; am going on writing under this forum- well simple to relate

We all have some problem we seriously don't admire anything, and if we do; we just do it because we find it a little interesting or just because many had liked it :-P. we don't learn anything out of it .... I mean if it had a message and you understood it, then what was wrong with you  to bring it to your reality and following it :-D.

It doesn’t make sense if you give speeches about life and its positive aspects and commit suicide the next day.

When anything is designed so well, why not to take the max benefit out of it.  ..... Be yourself follow what you want, learn it ;onlyIf you mean it..
 IT's a real world, just face it with what you really are :-)

Preach not because you have to say something, but because you have something to say.
--RICHARD WHATELY

Cheers-- Garima singh.

Thank YOU 2011; CHEERS -2012

Year 2011 – was one of the most wonderful years of my life … certainly I can say, I had altogether some different 365 days of my life.


I mean like previously when I took up celebrations of upcoming year there wasn’t much difference in them. We cut cake ate good food danced like mad monkeys and then 9 8 7 ….. 1 0 Happy New Year tanta daaaaaaaaaaaaan

Next day was the same I had to go to college or school. I wasn’t so sincere about anything else other than my education :)

But last 365 days were different, they have changed my way of thinking, my beliefs, my way of analysing and understanding things, I take up everything with equal sincerity and responsibility. I find myself standing here welcoming this new year with so many hopes, dreams and aims for every next tomorrow.

I believe everything that we learn is 20 % from your experiments and understandings 80 % from our surroundings. I feel am too lucky to be in such a surrounding where every new day brings in something new for me to learn.

Here I would like to THANK every new person who found me or whom I found around, be it  at my workplace, my bus stop, social networking site ;) mutual friends, friends from other workplace (who came in contact in time of my need or my friends need :D ). Life definitely wouldn’t have been this smooth without your help guys… One thing what I have learnt and adapted from all of you was, being open, being available and being helpful definitely becomes a benefit to people around you; but it eventually is a big benefit to you too :D.

Growing up was something that I always hated, don’t ask me why. But now hehe I take up every new twist as challenge Thanks to my family :)

I was so confused after my graduation where to land up, thanks to my bhaiyya (elder brother) helping me all the way, teaching me how to make and take decisions, pushing me at the points where I stood weak to boost me up.
Thanks to Anna Hazare, finally I got habituated to read newspaper, which I was trying hard for 7 months.

Thanks to all the eye candies ;) .. Boys you were all too good and helpful for teaching me peaks of fascination :-D.

Thanks to all my old friends who are still in contact. Though we talk once in a month or 2 but yet they make me feel nothing has changed between us :D. Love you friends you all are and always be the bindass bunch of superstars :D I had who keep shining always. Who try hard to make me smile and if I don’t, they tickle me so hard that I have to shout –“ab bus karo, jaan loge bacche ki ”

Thanks to my guru ji, you were a great influence for making me more optimistic and active.

I'll always be good to all of you, spare me if I commit any mistakes.

Though this sounds like thanks giving speech after some film fare award but thanks again for all your love and support.

May you all be blessed with what all you truly desire for, Be healthy, Be happy, Be positive and Be confident rest of things would definitely work well.

I have taken up my resolutions again and I must fulfil them unlike previous years :) and carry them forward effectively -do pray for me :D.

May every new day bring in lots of hopes and opportunities for you all. A Very HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Love you all, CHEERS :)

--Garima Singh