Whenever I am hurt :(

Whenever I am hurt, I understand two things very clearly

1. I still own my little soft heart

2. I gave permission to someone to hurt it- Its My mistake.. :( :'(

-Gary

I strongly believe that always misunderstandings ..tough times occurs between friends and these are all part of any relationship. There is nothing wrong to bow a little contradicting your ego if you want to sustain the relation. If you go on blaming the other person then there is no reason to hold on with that person, and in a way you are hurting yourself and the other person as well. Rather end things up or just forget, things are never going to work anyway.

As I always say that tough/ unmanageable conditions happens But its important to concentrate on solution rather than discussing and elongating the problem itself

Yet...Cheers :)
--Garima singh

KyON ? nA BOLE mose mohan KyoN?

Trust is a big thing and understanding is another.... If you carry both, for a person then that person is surely a true friend of yours.

These friends you never know, when they become important to you, you love spending time with them ... you feel lighter when you are around them. It really doesn't matter whether they consider you important or not. Its never important to be center of attraction among them, the leader or head to whom  the rest listen, you just love to get teased , you enjoy teasing them, annoying them, pleasing them and at times making them feel they are the very special people in your life :-) and  I am lucky to have a group of such people with me.

At times it happens that you become unhappy with that person leavin u behind for the  timebeing or for the rest of life.. .. right !
and when that person doesn't understand, the reason behind you being agitated or disturbed..... you feel more depressed. Most of us tend to get irritated and angry and the rest goes worse - we fight with our loved ones and situation gets more complicated :-/ .

I don't know if in these conditions its easy to talk, But yes, One thing what I am sure about is - Its easier to stay calm when you are angry ..... stay away if you can't hold the agitation.. caused by detachment of someone. At times under agitation you loose your control on your head and words spoken to some one who is important to you can harm your relationship. The further damages would be a little long lull between the two person. You are left with..... if I dint...  I shouldn't have....... why did I ... kind of things :-D

Readers are open to provide their thoughts and advises :-)

Most of the troubles comes from misunderstandings so my .....last thought of the day

“We're all born with selfish desires, so we can all relate to those feelings in others. But kindness is something made individually by each person...so it's easy to misunderstand when others are trying to be kind to you."-- NATSUKI

 -- Cheers
Garima singh

An Abrupt Discussion!

Few days back.... It was a Wednesday or Thursday I don't exactly remember, But I do remember the conversation I had with a very close friend of mine..

 Aashi hmm... I don't know whether I should apologize to him ...for eating away his  brains every evening, specially when he is literally very tired, I never let him sleep in the bus and start up some unending discussion -> which at time becomes one sided, lolzz  hands off to his patience :) and his capability to listen to all  the senseless issues I go on with. 

Though the discussion I am talking about wasn't that senseless and one sided it was about Dreams and what all we dream, why n how they come to our head and.... how good and creative our brain could be at times...that it gives you scope to think in a complete new angle to start up something , If in case you remember those dreams.

I have few of my short stories on them, some paintings and few very thought provoking incidents that came in as illusion or dream, which held me up to make up some good decisions and habits :)

I believe there is a person inside us which makes us see what all our possibilities are.... now its on us how much importance we give to it. or if we ignore it. This person visualize lot of things, you see everything, feel it and then you are positive with certain conditions and negative with the rest. but this inner person tries to think beyond whatever you see ... calculates it keep a tik ahead with future summarizing the past... May be its the same person who makes you dream  ....More than what you can think. I know I know I sound absurd at times 

But what if i term this insider as our Partial brain or instinct huhh...

I don't  know how to conclude this blog may be Its again something too psychological :-D Even the Discussion was abrupt though ...... hahaha

Hmm but I would write a little more  about dreams in some other Forum 

- cheers 

Garima Singh

And I'm Numb again..!

Times when I regret few moments, Hope they never took place

My throat's chocked, bruises inside my heart; I badly crave solace..

Its tough to understand the pain inside, it just goes louder and strong 

Time is a fraudster, Who can explain me, when and where did I go wrong

I am tired of all lies, the ugly faiths and the trampling consuetudes

Things disguises me till the core and am done with these attitudes. 

 I am Numb again, confused how to react to the affliction 

Life seems baseless, efforts seem aimless am left in depression.