QUARTER LIFE CRISIS !!!

Quarter life - is that part of your life where you are in your 20's looking forward with loads of hope towards your future. gripping all that you have learnt till now ....
Criticising yourself for those moments which cud have been better....
and pleased with yourself for all those good moments...
Smiling on those moments that were blunders yet beloved :)

This particular stage is when you stand partially confident about what you want to do with the rest of your life. analyzing and understanding all your options......planning .. scheduling .... changing yourself or I would rather say improving yourself ... where you think is necessary


most of us are very lucky to suffer this kind of crisis for a very small period of time or some doesn't get a chance to understand the quarter life crisis at all .... (may b its cuz of their prior planning or pure luck.)

But others are more fortunate to understand this QLC to the extreme extent. May be for a bit too long... they get lot of chances to understand what exactly they want.....then they strive a lot, commit blunders ...and yes a new one every time. Then they learn something new...."who the hell care about results after all life is all about learning and I am in the process...".lol what you call “change in attitude”. Initially it may go towards pessimism but the pressure that built up takes it to a stage where the pessimism ends once for all and a positive approach towards everything comes from within.
Patience is the other biggest thing that one develops in this stage. And the final outcome whatever it is, it is the struggle that makes it the best. :)

Here in the whole context I am not just talking about a profession that a person starts seeking after his/her graduation. There are so many other things that add to the above it may be your thinking, prospective, behavior, priorities, preferences which changes you and transforms a local student to a social individual.

Our thought of "please daddy" for pocket money, embarrasses us.
The brands that we used to indulge earlier seem to be a waste of money.

Besides all of these, there are so many hard ships that a beginner faces every now n then. All of a sudden everyone starts asking you about the job or placement or marriage "So, what are u doing " or “what are your future plans” and we don't find a better way to skip it than replying "nothing".
The momentary happiness for our friends or acquaintances on their success turns to a tragic trauma. "God m still here” is one of the most popular quotes that bother them.
And the biggest one is the thought about your life partner, which keeps on provoking you at the wrong timings lol..

Life seems to be A TOTAL CRISIS....

Each and every moment, the thought of being unsuccessful keeps pinning you down ...but all you can do is to hold on and wait patiently. Cos surely there will be a tomorrow which would definitely end the quarter life crisis.

Guys, just keep working hard and do not lose your faith ...we all are talented.
All the best :-) :-P

slow down slow down...........................

life  moving too fast and people around are all striving to keep up the pace...
after all life is a race :)....

And the changes are faster than ever...basic requirements earlier were food. shelter clothing... yeah its still is but with addition of a cell phone laptop and a bike.!!!...letters  got replaced by emails n sms....landlines by mobiles.... one-days by 20-20 ......... and all tasty cuisines by fast food...

its not just few habits , whole life style is under consistent change.

people don't find quality time to spend on them selves and their families..... well checking out the global tweet is more important than thinking about what should i be doing for a better tomorrow....

we can't take out time to sit with mom ..talk to her .. make her smile... every day.... spend some ample of time with our grand parents... but yes.. sending tons of messages on mothers day, fathers day..blah blah.. is such a compulsion.

none of us bother to plant a seed.. but yeah checking out the farm on face book before it gets withered is must and should...

no one finds time to sought out a friends problem.... we all r so busy in gossips yaar!!!

so many await to watch all those stupid reality show.... does ever any body take a step.. to have a reality check ... where do i stand exactly.. .. am i capable of doing anything for self or my people.. :(

people don't even care, who resides in our neighborhood .. but complementing or commenting on some ones status ... or profile photo is our duty....!!

projects ......assignments..... meetings ...... market...... parties and pubs....

"I want to be the first and best...who cares how i make it.".. is the on going strategy ...

fast.. faster .. fastest.....

yes i am in... thats how we go.....

......... seeking money seeking fame..... and satisfaction....
well the last one is the hardest  to find in this world of most unsatisfied humans....... what ever we get, we are never satisfied....

where can v find satisfaction.. what is this satisfaction actually... ..... repeating above line ." what ever we get ,we are never satisfied...." but there are ways.. where we can move along to a calm surrounding...... soothing environment and lovely atmosphere, and its no way far ,just lies in parallel of the faster going world,,, with in us....

all that one need to do is slow down......

slow down u have a family to take care about .. who want you to be a part of there ups and downs...
which waits for you to have dinner together and to share those tiny moments with u.. to gather all the showering concern .just slow down...

slow down when some one needs you....

slow down .. when some one trying to explain you something

slow down when.. ur elders are trying to teach make you understand  something..

thing is, even though we r in no rush.... we never let the vehicle beside to overtake ... Y ???

its not that we are always out of time.. or we dont find time.... we just don't take out time... from our so called busy schedule..., which is actually not that tough....!!

                     Well  its easy to set priority and spend lot of time enjoying it.. with friend... family... hobbies.. or what ever we want to do right at that moment....

So just slow down a bit and think how can i......and the answer will b with you, the next moment!!

you have come all along the end of  this blog...this itself shows that some where in you, is hidden a spirit to change...to slow down..bring back the things to the path...and get it done in your way...


cheers :)