People generally say that behind every girls favorite song, is an untold story"
Hmmm then i would like to share mine
main jahaan rahoon
main kahin bhi hoon
teri yaad saath hai
kisi se kahoon
ke nahi kahoon
yeh jo dil ki baat hai
kehne ko saath apane ek duniya chalti hai
per chhupke is dil mein tanhaayi palti hai
bas yaad saath hai
teri yaad saath hai
koi nayi duniya ke naye rango mein khush rehta hai
koi sab kuch paake bhi yeh mann hi mann kehta hai
I am standing here at the point where every next turn of mine effects my whole headed future....
Sometimes I try to understand the situations, no matter how bad it is, I try to find the solutions, enjoy the course but there are often situations that frustrate me completely, I mean seriously, I feel surrounded with pathetic circumstances, you don't know what to do? Why things happening with you.
Well again that's So called life is, It can never be a smooth highway ... rather it’s all messed up.
At times so messy that you don't find where the path moves and where to take turn, all you can do is take the charge of cleaning the area and clear your path put efforts and your understandings to move forward. Everyone's rushing out there you can't take the risk of stopping at any point :(
But, how long! Where will this end.
70% of my request always go bluntly with NO as its answer, Certainly 3 out 5 the reason behind it be that you are a girl. I know society is developing, people and their thinking is as well but yet there is no end to this reason that we get for all those NO's we get for our requests.
I agree These NO's are good for us and given to us from those who have got lot of concerns for us. But... :(
The desires they are all collapsed and zeal get diminished by these NO's . And again I have NO Idea what to do to stop these NO's I wish i was a boy. At least to enjoy a careless, carefree life. With again NO restrictions. No Timing. No unnecessary tension.
I envy you all guys you roam at nights with your friends; No one checks times for you. You have hell lot of your friends and no one dare to ask you the list. You or your dear ones don't have to be worried if you go alone anywhere.
Why is that you get lot of choice to decide when you want to be committed, when you are ready to take responsibilities. You don't have to leave your parents your friends your place your lifestyle... whatever why is that expected from girls....... The list goes on...
But if
I want to do something - A question arises WHY?
I start doing something many more Questionaires WHAT for?
----- My third Poem
Trembling somehow, when I reached some height,
It was lovely to see those faces with joy,
yet I had to put my steps back, hearing the cry,
"It’s too far my child", you are not a boy
Why everyone discriminate so much
I don't feel there is any need as such.
Boys you are lucky, you may be strong but you do annoy :-P
Whatever I am still good ,and thank god am not a boy
-----Garima Singh
Garima, life is full of difficulty, whether a boy or girl….various aspects and diverse situations strengthen the power of resistance as their life moves ahead…The word ‘No’ is related with every living being…so don’t worry, just take the decision whatever u like…path will be found.
ReplyDeleteI didnt read ur third poem but...grass is always greener on the other side...lolzz...i wish i was a girl without the tension of earning money, taking any responsibility, i would love to sit at home and take care of kids, investing time in my own activities instead of sitting in office, doing work that is used by some foreigners, without any appreciation,....huh...i think am dumping all my problems here now...ignore ignore! :)
ReplyDeleteYea quiet true GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER ON OTHER SIDE....
ReplyDeleteYou are talking about tensions of earning money no idea in which generation u are still living who believe , its only men's responsibly while now a days we see every wife sharing it supporting it the same way ....sitting @ office coming back home taking care of their kids ... their husbands .. parents what ever...
And in case if they are just house wife ... ask them how lonely they are ... specially those who have their sons working in some mnc and doing work for some foreigner.. who dont get much attention from their family :-/ upsetting but this is quiet a fact...
dear...there is no compulsion on girls for doing a job(exceptions ignored)...its kinda hobby for them...you are pissed off with your boss, you resign without bothering abt wat next...we dont have that flexibility...btw...generations might change but it depends on whether you want to change, become a westernized person(because of the job) or stick to your family...if you dont want to marry and be a house-wife, you are free to do so...dont force yourself into it and later complain that you have to sit idle at home(am not addressing you in specific but...jst in general)...
ReplyDeleteand btw...its not jst ladies who take care of kids and parents...men/fathers take equal responsibility...
like alok said, its more or less, same for both boys and girls...it all depends on how u look at it...understanding and prioritizing the responsibilities is all that takes for a peaceful life...
chill...dont take too seriously...end of the day, we all reach the same place :)
All right Fine You Won
ReplyDelete.... I am not frustrated with my job neither with my lifestlye.... Its just that i don't know where to dump off my emotions and thoughts.
Though I don't completely agree with what you Say :-P
Thanks for your piece of advice. You are experienced and elder to me .you may be right.
haha... :) forget abt winning or losing...am frustrated both with life and job...anyways...the way you ended is really appreciable(not sure if you are sarcastic)...cheers!
ReplyDeleteNaaaah Am not being sarcastic ... I believe an experienced has better views than our futuristic illusions :)
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