Acceptance

 My fate is beyond, what I Believe and decide,
At times it takes me far , from where I really reside.
Though Understanding, the variance, is  difficult sometime,
Eventually, Its My life and all I can do.. is adjust after each climb.

--Gary


Change is one real thing that consistently happens to each and everyone, Be it a change of self, Surroundings, or  people around you /far, Situations........ whatever.... It takes good amount of patience to accept few of them when they appear very much unlike to our expectations. 

ACCEPTANCE is a big thing and not that easy to possess. We generally tend to judge or condemn people or even situations which comes from a refusal within us to accept the actual reasons / conditions or reality...

.When generally conditions do not appear as per our expectations, or positive to us... These things make us impatient at times helpless or hopeless.

When A little praise, a promotion  is denied or a compliment is missed, a change in say... Boss , living , relationships , financial troubles and all the above circumstances arrases ...What gets us on first step is a huge frustration..we get irritated easily and we do irritate others around, The instinct always says to fight and disagree to what ever comes towards us rather than to accept and move on....

I wont say fighting back is wrong, It may be the exact thing needed, But its never chancy to wait and think upon the action you are going to put on the table, to think all pros and cons of what things would result into !!!!!


Just Give it a thought - We generally force our  life and few circumstances to conform on our beliefs or desires at times, which are disconnected with reality. and then what happens ?

For an eg : ---In the first stage of love be it for a Guy or Girl .......you tend to love the person as they are and as time changes every one does change and honestly adjustment and acceptance is the only way which helps to carry forward things in a proper manner. Once you start with the blame game nothing really works.

The same thing applies in your work atmosphere or at any situation where emotional and financial ups and downs appears...

Accepting not always show you are weak... Its just a way to release your head from unwanted issues and to move on to a better situation.

Choose your paths carefully ...
always
Cheers Garima singh :)