Corporate-Life-Romance

There's some of Romeo's romance in me... I romanticise a lot of things in my mind...

--Leonardo DiCaprio

I’ve No Idea why am I beginning with this quote, however I am pretty sure that I do echo what leo says he is one of my favorite actor’s and I love him onscreen

I am a fiction lover too, yet I write a lot on things which are completely true but are moulded in a form of fiction,  Romance is a fiction that don’t really needs everything to be in real or does it , well let’s find it out!

Here on I am going to talk about people in their tweens, that don’t restrict people above or below age to read this I am just addressing so cuz may be I am at my 20’s ..

At 20s there are basically 3 GOALS we go on striving for

1. Money

2. Fame

3.  Success

The Order of the 3 may change for different people, yet we all work hard for the same and at time so hard that we almost forget that we aren’t doing anything else than working and learning, the consequences often for most of us is that ,we behave as if we are lonely, we feel bored and over stressed.

At your 20’s the best thing for deviation comes in the form of attraction towards something which has nothing to do with your work or the above 3 Goals

Often its love, romance or just a kindling crush on someone.

And as the - trend setting generation is going on its superfast way, with almost have less/no time for anything else apart Working and making money….. a romantic relationship with someone from your office , say it your colleague comes really handy…… Right!

I am sure most of you might have heard these lines ..

“ I really wished that guy was single I would have been a perfect match for him, I pity his choice :P”

“ Dude! Stop staring her , she is going to be my future wife ; And your friend wonders if you even know her name :D”

The One I often hear “She / he is a complete marriage material “ sounds really funny to me

Few conversations which I overheard from other tables

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àWork place gives you good options.

Mr A: Hey Dude did you look at her the one in blue Tees man she looks too good!

MrB :  you need to go for an eye check up check that girl two table next to her I bet you might have never witnessed something more adorable :P

àWell we often get even few type of sites where a flop show is carried on very well.

Miss K: You mean you like him

Miss L : I … ummm yeh, but I proposed him , but it dint work out.

Miss K : So now ?

Miss L : Nothing we are still good friends and everythings fine

Miss K : really ? I see you guyz even avoid eye contact :P

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“You know what mr X and miss Y often spend good time together ,be it for a tea break, discussions some outing blah blah..There is something fishy going on (giggles)  “

“ you know I always see her going  taking a long way to the pantry, seems like she comes over to check if he is available at his desk , poor girl seemed to be crushed lolzz“

“Have you ever seen him working, he comes just to chat with her all day”

àWe all hear these sort of rumours often in offices well these cozy conversation seems interesting don’t they well nothing wrong spicing up things ;) and often we do spice em up :P

Ahhh i think I am exaggerating on this..Anyways We can see many office colleagues marrying each other huhh ??..

You see long work schedule, spending long time in the same place with the opposite gender, where there is very less time to relax what else can you expect: P

So Concluding here ...workplace is or can be a place where most of couples meet. Unlike dating someone, here you get ample amount of time to know the person and there is nothing wrong in being friendly to a colleague.

Finding your true partner or soul mate this way is too good. And we genuinely see many of these relationship works however …Here are some tips –

-      How to realize you are falling in love?

If in case you spend long hours with your friend (a single person of opposite sex) sharing on your personal information lunch and a lot more at the same time if you find the other person shows equal interest and enthuse for it , then for sure you are falling in love with him or her

-      How to stop yourself if you feel you are falling in love with the wrong person?

It’s not very simple but the best way is to revert things step by step, As everyone does stop meeting him or her personally make sure you people are in a group , disclose your feelings in a very polite manner, make sure that you need your job and act accordingly .

-      Often we tend to share information about our feelings on someone, with people around us make sure until or unless things are positive at the end to keep things a secrets, It a corporate world and it’s often easy to become the subject of gossip. You see there are often people who find the two of you in a lift and don’t take much time to imagine the sequence of (baho mein chale aao)or  some romantic song.

-      A no is always a NO, if you are unable to bear with each other it avoid situations to come across each other.

-      Never fall in for someone who is married, No matter how much you like each other.

-      If you have problems with your current relationship or past relationship, just for the sake of new air doesn't switch to a new relationship it often doesn't work.

Love has its own sort of gravity and Falling in love is a natural thing It keeps you super active and very positive, so fall in love again and over again… No harm.. However be alert and smart enough in expressing things !!!

Cheers

Garima Singh :)