To,
All those who cheers for the best ones forgetting the others who fought well for that positions.
All those who crave to be at those positions.
All those who neglect the fact that the journey of success is more beautiful than success itself.
Hi All,
I know you all are very fine and doing good in what ever field or sector you are in, and even if you are not believe me its just your perception.
Many times it happens that if something happens rather very good to us or just the opposite we try to relive it in our head again and again (frequency will be more if its the latter case ). We film it and keep repeating the reel to find out where the heck things went wrong exactly or where it could have been better don't we !!!
"This is the worst time of my Life " how many of us say this ?
Okay Am rephrasing it, how Often we say this.... Well I got a good number when i answered that one.
The other day I found a bunch of friends giggling around talking to each other , Teasing few among them and then there was a cold war followed by a sequences of swear words, the whole group was divided into two both groups had a leader. I moved closure to the group, to find out what actually was going on.It was as though there was something lost and both were blaming each other for their mistakes.This went on for an hour and then both were upset and left the place separately.
We want every thing to fall into the plate.. at times with out even moving the plate. Probably its never necessary to be upset when you don't get a chance, ask your self were you deserving enough? did you really work hard. Problem 1 here, we never wait for our inner self to reply cuz we know it will say "You should have tried harder.. " rather we end up blaming others or the situation or our fate.
Hold On i am not preaching to work hard or to be sincere,well that's your choice what all i wanted to stress is that, what if you don't succeed, what if you aren't at the first place, what if you missed the right bus. There is always a second, third and so many more coming up next, we just need to wait for them patiently. Being First is of course important but only till the race isn't ended.
Running behind the success don't fetch you anything until you could enjoy the journey towards it. Its not always necessary to be at the top because you would never be. When you aim for perfection, you will discover it to be a moving target. So if u end up saying am at the top, that means you have no where to go next.
Why is it that we all want everything so good so right so perfect... the best out of the best ones lol. be it your clothes, career, food, friends, life partners. I don't understand this logic though. I completely disagree with the fact that the best ones are best I believe- best is always temporary.
I really don't care if some one finds- my choice, my ideas to be funny...well they are mine.
And I am not a PERFECTION seeker, I love each and every bit of my imperfectionism, this is what keeps me Alive and this make me more eager to seek out ways for new challenges, One in so many of em', attracted to charisma of life am unique in my own way.
One thing i learnt today was---
All those who cheers for the best ones forgetting the others who fought well for that positions.
All those who crave to be at those positions.
All those who neglect the fact that the journey of success is more beautiful than success itself.
Hi All,
I know you all are very fine and doing good in what ever field or sector you are in, and even if you are not believe me its just your perception.
Many times it happens that if something happens rather very good to us or just the opposite we try to relive it in our head again and again (frequency will be more if its the latter case ). We film it and keep repeating the reel to find out where the heck things went wrong exactly or where it could have been better don't we !!!
"This is the worst time of my Life " how many of us say this ?
Okay Am rephrasing it, how Often we say this.... Well I got a good number when i answered that one.
The other day I found a bunch of friends giggling around talking to each other , Teasing few among them and then there was a cold war followed by a sequences of swear words, the whole group was divided into two both groups had a leader. I moved closure to the group, to find out what actually was going on.It was as though there was something lost and both were blaming each other for their mistakes.This went on for an hour and then both were upset and left the place separately.
We want every thing to fall into the plate.. at times with out even moving the plate. Probably its never necessary to be upset when you don't get a chance, ask your self were you deserving enough? did you really work hard. Problem 1 here, we never wait for our inner self to reply cuz we know it will say "You should have tried harder.. " rather we end up blaming others or the situation or our fate.
Hold On i am not preaching to work hard or to be sincere,well that's your choice what all i wanted to stress is that, what if you don't succeed, what if you aren't at the first place, what if you missed the right bus. There is always a second, third and so many more coming up next, we just need to wait for them patiently. Being First is of course important but only till the race isn't ended.
Running behind the success don't fetch you anything until you could enjoy the journey towards it. Its not always necessary to be at the top because you would never be. When you aim for perfection, you will discover it to be a moving target. So if u end up saying am at the top, that means you have no where to go next.
Why is it that we all want everything so good so right so perfect... the best out of the best ones lol. be it your clothes, career, food, friends, life partners. I don't understand this logic though. I completely disagree with the fact that the best ones are best I believe- best is always temporary.
I really don't care if some one finds- my choice, my ideas to be funny...well they are mine.
And I am not a PERFECTION seeker, I love each and every bit of my imperfectionism, this is what keeps me Alive and this make me more eager to seek out ways for new challenges, One in so many of em', attracted to charisma of life am unique in my own way.
One thing i learnt today was---
"Perfectionism is not a quest for the best. It is a pursuit of the worst in ourselves, the part that tells us that nothing we do will ever be good enough - that we should try again. "
Julia Cameron
Julia Cameron
