Trust is a big thing and understanding is another.... If you carry both, for a person then that person is surely a true friend of yours.
These friends you never know, when they become important to you, you love spending time with them ... you feel lighter when you are around them. It really doesn't matter whether they consider you important or not. Its never important to be center of attraction among them, the leader or head to whom the rest listen, you just love to get teased , you enjoy teasing them, annoying them, pleasing them and at times making them feel they are the very special people in your life :-) and I am lucky to have a group of such people with me.
At times it happens that you become unhappy with that person leavin u behind for the timebeing or for the rest of life.. .. right !
and when that person doesn't understand, the reason behind you being agitated or disturbed..... you feel more depressed. Most of us tend to get irritated and angry and the rest goes worse - we fight with our loved ones and situation gets more complicated :-/ .
I don't know if in these conditions its easy to talk, But yes, One thing what I am sure about is - Its easier to stay calm when you are angry ..... stay away if you can't hold the agitation.. caused by detachment of someone. At times under agitation you loose your control on your head and words spoken to some one who is important to you can harm your relationship. The further damages would be a little long lull between the two person. You are left with..... if I dint... I shouldn't have....... why did I ... kind of things :-D
Readers are open to provide their thoughts and advises :-)
Most of the troubles comes from misunderstandings so my .....last thought of the day
“We're all born with selfish desires, so we can all relate to those feelings in others. But kindness is something made individually by each person...so it's easy to misunderstand when others are trying to be kind to you."-- NATSUKI
-- Cheers
Garima singh
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