Thursday, August 23, 2012

We all are mirrors !!!!



Oh well that was so much expected from you…
You are always like this …
Will you be ever changing yourself?
Stop criticising me …..

So how many of us are bugged up hearing this? Or shall I frame it like, how many of us use these lines for others more often.
As someone said every one is a moon and all have their dark side which they certainly never show… though this line softly breezes inside our mind, comprehending us with what the actual conditions or contingencies are but in tough or high times we altercate with our inner voice or conscience, Pushing our self to the right side or positive side blaming the others.


One needs to put in some patience to understand the Where, When What went wrong and Why including the perspectives from other side or a neutral one.
In these situations if someone speaks aggressively without understanding the facts things reverts to them. Procrastinating is not always good, But taking time to make up any decision and giving some time to relax to few acerbic things inside you causes no big harm.

We all are Mirrors we see what we want to see in others ... we show them what we want them to see....Choice still remains with us.

"A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world: everyone you meet is your mirror."
-Ken Keyes Jr.


Cheers ..
~Garima Singh~

Monday, August 13, 2012

Why is it so important to be LOVED

Life …..It gives so much of excitement, loads of courage... Shaky waves to experience peaks of trills..... Calmness of loneliness, pains of emptiness and then it goes on…It’s a complete roller-coaster ride.


Every small thing happening around transfers some emotion into you, or may be some sort of feeling

For an example - When you see a couple immensely into love.. then either you fly away ... wuffffffff...... into past, imagining some good memories or you become upset remembering few bad ones and at times excited thinking about future lol :-D.

Why is it so important to be in love or to be loved, sometimes I conclude saying...
                               We are hungry ... maybe we all are always for love.. True love....

No matter, from where it comes to us. We are in a consistent search of it; we bow a bit towards people who provide it to us. Be it a person from your family or your whole family. your kid who cheer you up  by his innocence , mom who worries for you for no reason, a life partner/ lover who gives almost everything unconditionally or conditionally :-P…..a friend who teases you and then pleases you, a teacher who is always concerned about you, ….. Love is always pure and perfect in itself, no matter in which form it comes to you.
 You never need to compare it or measure it.

People fall in love instantly or maybe they go on for trial and error ;-). Will he/she be the right person I can continue loving for my whole life :-P…. This mostly happens with a classmate or a colleague, a Friend; long or short term.. You are so busy with other stuff that you try finding connections nearby.

Some time I wonder how people tend to search for love on social networking, or just they are too busy with their schedule that these so called online friends comes on easy reach and handy to them J.

  I am not against to making friendship online and… ahem you know what I mean, but you never know that how many times you go on trials to hit the bulls eye without knowing if the person you had a good friendship online were actually serious about you. Neither do you be sure of being serious and with whom actually you were serious (well people genuinely go for a mass trials :-P ;making friendship with X num of people).



Based on few thought which I expressed above I am writing a story ….

And before you drop reading or you continue……. thank you for reading my posts J


Here's an extract of a story I started writing.....Titled

 "Well it’s a roller-coaster ride"



She was persuading her reluctant thoughts when someone called her from back
“Hey … It is you”

Trying audaciously to come out of the buzz of her thoughts she saw a familiar face. The voice seemed pleasant and sweet it helped her to pull herself out of the bewildered compass. 

“ Riya ! Oh my god it’s you … you look great.. How have you been?”

She felt a quiver of shock inside her chest to hear her name, at the same time was trying hard to remember the one who was standing infront of her with such a warm smile. 
 She was worried of making him despair by not recollecting any memory about him, who was continuosly speaking to her. But other than the smile which reminded her a kid who met her years ago, she couldn't figure out anythingelse.

He Interupted her vague though's, "Riya are you all right, you seem lost .What is it dear "

She was completely clueless. Finally she gave up and asked " I am sorry, Do we know each other ?"

There was a silence of 2 mins and then he said " Well I am the one whom you asked to forget you." 

she glanced his face one more time.

He repeated  "yea you asked me to forget you,  I have no idea why you did all that, but it was hard to forget you and I still love you "

She was dumbstruck with the words spoken by a complete stranger or may be he wasn't a stranger. Deep inside her heart she was bang with a flash of guilt, she felt as if she'll broke into tears. The stranger left her again into further deeper vague of thoughts........  !!!