It’s been long that I had written something and posted on my wall. Well My bad, I haven’t been very focused to writing these days, lot of things happening around me and of course with me, that I feel, I am just lost, and been wandering for peace and stability of mind for few days.
Things seemed almost messed up in every area.
Thanks to the newcomer ;-) that few disturbances are good enough that they go giggling me around, but the others ones, happening frequently are too lamentable.
The other day I found a cute kid, playing with colored pebbles, initially throwing them with all his force and then going in a search to find and collect them back in his pocket, I wondered how innocent the idea of this game is.
I was curious to help him out, I asked if I could join him and with a warm smile he welcomed.
Thus we became a team and while we both were in the process, we found more pebbles than the number of what we threw on step one.
When I argued, that few of the collected stones are not very smooth and don’t belong to the set which we threw, perhaps we are still left with few more to be found. The kid smiled back and said "does it matter, we have collected 25 stones... while I threw only 15 of them and I like their color I will keep them all". It was amazing to see what a magnificent attitude he carried. I kissed him and paused for something in reply, and the boy ran away lolzz.
When I argued, that few of the collected stones are not very smooth and don’t belong to the set which we threw, perhaps we are still left with few more to be found. The kid smiled back and said "does it matter, we have collected 25 stones... while I threw only 15 of them and I like their color I will keep them all". It was amazing to see what a magnificent attitude he carried. I kissed him and paused for something in reply, and the boy ran away lolzz.
He thought me few things that day, which I guess I already knew, but maybe I lost them somewhere growing up.
It took me really long to understand that-- judging myself through someone else eyes makes no sense to me and to my life, And whether we understand it or not everything in life eventually get arranged in the perfect order, yea at times it need your strength and commitments to see everything fell in the right place.
There is nothing called a problem, it’s only a challenge or an opportunity to learn..
Certainly it’s not very important that all your expectations are being worked upon /fulfilled. Rather life is easier without these expectations. If you don’t expect anything from anybody you will never be disappointed.
Put efforts and challenge yourself every day which make you happy. If you are going on and off with something and ideas are being conflicting in your mind….Take risk commit mistakes well I will say that’s how you grow. But try it rather than just thinking about it.
Sometimes we don’t get what all we wanted but if you can find happiness in the thing you got, enjoy it.
While I was thinking for long and waiting at my staircase I found the boy coming towards me,I bent down and he thanked me giving me two pebbles saying "its yours " and asked if we can play carom together, Well I had nothing to say I nodded my head. :-D
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Its not necessary to expect returns always ; just wait for things to grow in their heart, but if it doesn't, be content enough to grew it in yours.
Cheers to life
~Garima singh~
