Often being judgmental is so facile that we tend to be so. You see a person, and then you observe him of her for quiet some time and try making out, how and what the person is like (strangers are not included in this case) ! This is totally normal too and an art of being human. We decide things based on some instincts some pre assumed perceptions may be.
But what if you are allowed to be with this person for more than provided time, Say long long time , May be in initial few days we will still go with the primitive practice of framing up the characteristics of this person and sketching in filling, colors putting stress on our head checking out things apart from looks - Certainly Behaviour comes first in the row which Often stays normal and actuals, after the first few hours, how they react in different situation, their high and lows, angers and ambiguities, stress and pains , pressure and pleasures.
I agree that understanding a complete stranger takes loads of time and effort, or may be not as time passes. And as time moves on you move on to a more comfortable zone where feeling are replaced by there behavior, For you what this person feels become more crucial than how he/ she behaves.
Concluding here … as the journey never ends and the point you start introspection its start of another phase ;)
“ Never decide the taste of a candy or importance of the gift by checking the wrapper, cuz neither the aroma, sweetness and the pleasure of having it be felt till the wrapper is unfold”
Cheers
Garima Singh
Things are not always as they seem; the first appearance deceives many.
& (though I offend a single day being celebrated for love ) Happy Valentines day :D
