ABIDE

A revolution is impossible without a revolutionary situation; furthermore, not every revolutionary situation leads to revolution.

I am with the protest and the revolution that is conquering a big section of India today. I really hope that this section becomes a little more robust and persuasive thus, successful in changing the other section further rapidly .... though this is going to be tough; yet I Hope this happens some day soon.

RAPE seems a common word these days everywhere on news, discussions, papers debates what not. Here My question is why no one takes these things up before any catastrophe happen. better late than never at least now it feels assured that every parent are teaching their child about this. I remember my school days, I never heard this term. Some how India needs (sex education) to educate their upcoming juvenile generation in a proper way; what they should never allow with them to happen.

They should also educate that there shouldn't be any discrimination with gender, As we were taught that there shouldn't be any with caste or religion. I wonder how many of us follow it, Every one did until we were in school no idea what went wrong when we grew up.

May be things change when we see the real world it talks something completely different and we just emancipate those words those quotes. :'(

I remember stories about Indian history which talks how the lower cast people were ill treated by the upper cast they were just like slaves living a disgusted life conjecturing they are bound to. A similar life style is being followed by a female section in India, I suppose the humiliation, physical or mental harassment  the torture is part of this discrimination.

Rape isn't just about a forceful sex, or physical harassment Its about few brutal humans who went a way beyond insanity to show women "this is your place". (Again Gender discrimination).

Few things from our customs needs to be changed vigorously, Though we see women getting equal rights to pursue the way to their dreams I wonder how many of us are given freedom to choose those path.Not to mention we still have few educated family who never agree for their wives or daughters to let go and show courage to run parallel with the society but yea it would be different if it comes to their son.Most of our family always demands a son, Wonder how many pray to have a daughter.  A girl is impure if she is having her menstrual cycle but nothing for the guy who goes out and molest girls on street.

Stop discrimination at home I would say that's basic way to start the change, yes we are changing and all I will say is to Abide with this change and sustain this feeling that pierced you deep inside.

Its easy to forget and that's what happens every time  If we remember we had uncountable number of similar cases like the Guwahati one, the German girl who was raped in Goa and killed, and we have many more which are not even registered. What happens is, News comes in media and people talk talk and talk about it, then forget.

So if we really want something to change we need be the change and make sure the change is not vanished after a period.

concluding here on a lighter note.

Time to chAnGe .... teach your daughters to be strong and bold to face the world and teach your sons not to mess with them ;-)

love your Mom, daughters, sisters, girlfriends /friends, Wife........ WOMEN cuz they are the reason that we all are here

जलाओ दीये पर रहे ध्यान इतना

अँधेरा धरा पर कहीं रह न जाए ।

-----Gopaldas Neeraj

-Cheers
Garima Singh