Revamp & Restart

Did it ever happen to you that you want to listen to some music and then there are too much noises out side every where .. may be it seem good to others but you are unable to take that one, you just want to indulge in your own music. What do we do in such cases ? We try using head phones and increase the volumes so that we concentrate only to our piece and stay in our own world no matter even if this loud music strikes your ear a little, It seem manageable isn’t it ?

Often when we are depressed with our own set of problems we do the same thing, we close our ears even eyes to anything thats coming our ways …. 

Totally unsure but feels like I am hit by my quarter life crises again ..

 Its been more than 3 months now in this new city, However I am Unable to find friends or a job, yet I stay busy .. not just busy "very busy" ….. certainly for the same reasons as above ….And now I don’t go out of my way to make friends as I always did , It often leads to disappointment, people are so busy or may be not ... Some time I feel as if  people are scared of each other that they have stopped speaking they keep them selves busy with gadgets … gadgets and gadgets everywhere they are  more important than person sitting beside.
I don't know how many of you have noticed but often people don’t react even if the person is trying to speak to them … They just don’t seem to be looking forward , and one person can't  go on hitting the ICE to break silence. 

Anyways Digging too hard into the feeling of why thing not falling in right place I realized that I have really increased the volume of music louder enough to hurt my ears, I need to assure that people who want to explain me things, & help me out are heard properly. and If something consistently irritates us about someone or something , then thats a high point to understand ourself on that particular aspect. Its not always necessary that problem retains on the other end. 

Lets revamp and give things another SHOT ! Well I can’t let circumstances change me :-/ 

Though I have heard too many times the saying “ don’t waste too much time in thinking or else we end up thinking too much and doing nothing “ 

It doesn’t strikes our head while we are actually wasting our time. lol

Cheers

~Garima ~

Start being fair, being fairer isn’t that necessary !!!!

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Miss A : You are such a talented dancer and you are on side stage 

Miss B : Oh dear what can I do,Its my fate, this dark complexion. :(

Miss A : Tadaaaa take this cream use for 30 days 

and see what wonder can it do 

 Conclusion : - Miss B becomes centre of attraction after using the beauty product.

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Mr H shows all his talent in acting, but no Director or People acknowledge his hard work and all of a sudden, Mr S comes in the scene..... saying "you need this beauty product" … and TADAAA Mr H becomes a Super star

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Another similar one with a enthusiastic cricket commentator , who then becomes fair, only to bag a job as commentator beside K Srikkanth. 

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One more One more … A guy being the interviewee can ask questions to his interviewers and impress them only because he is fair … and his fairness gives him super confidence to do so…. how funny 

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And the last one

A guy breaks up with his long time girlfriend to find a new one, and then when he find his X who eventually becomes fair post using some beauty fairness cream finds out that he still love her …. Man Awful…..

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We have been seeing such commercial day after,  Its not that I am offending people who are fair , or those who use such beauty products, but only one question hits hard to my head over and over again, when I see such concepts being used in commercials  which are frequently telecasted. 

I mean .. what sense that concept makes, where you show that a dancer, if has a lil darker complexion doesn’t fit good for being on centre stage ??? or if a girl has dull wheatish skin can’t be a good commentator, And your color makes it all to big screens or gives you confidence …. this is all nothing but a weird state of making color discrimination. Color has nothing to do with your confidence nor with your talent neither with any relation ship , No Idea why indians or may be huge set of people mad about the fairer looking skin.

WANTED BRIDE WITH VERY FAIR COMPLEXION

Ever gone through a male matrimonial ad.. 80 to 85 % have this line in common out of rest 15%, 10% would omit the word VERY but rest would certainly be included. No matter what complexion the guy carry.. and ahaaaaan this is not for the groom or for their prestige its issue with the next generation … the next breed needs to be fair, No matter if they are stubborn or ruthless yet fair is must. I wonder who will talk about the colors in future decades though, but yes color in current generation is a very big criteria.

 Come on! THE NEW GENERATION when are we going to change our thinking on this aspect?

As most of us prefer kajol over any other heroine, no matter if she is dark, she is talented and super kool on the screen.  I can skip a katrina’s movie but kajol would never be a miss. 

Just like when we make new friends we don’t set criterion of looks, here what matters is bonding and nature of the other person, why doesn’t the same thing been carried well in other cases?

Anyways I really hope some day things would change and even our mindset.

Non of us can evade discrimination it starts as soon as you see yourself in mirror, its says this is you and they are all there who come in others, however we can definitely avoid difference we don’t live in mirror, we are not reflections we all are humans.

--Gary

Cheers :)

Garima Singh

~Beauty lies within~