After having a really tough day, I am here blogging with a mug of really taste less coffee :P
after reading few of my old blogs , memorizing and re-living all those moments, i felt i should add one more .
Its totally true and I completely agree, that though life at times becomes routine, the time never repeats itself. Even though some things happens to us, for the second or third time.but,the effect never remains to be the same !!!
Its been almost a month since i joined my work place .
the journey from a student's life, to a would- be professional was so lovely .I've loved and lived each and every part thoroughly! i have enjoyed commiting tons of mistakes and learnt so much from most of them ...... !!!
And i feel so good about my past. whatever it has been,it was totally wonderful.So when ever i feel low... all i need to do is to close my eyes and remember those few good and funny moments. Interesting past isn't it? i would rather say my mind never lets me feel sad or depressed. now .... even if some thing is odd, my stress, tension or whatever we name our tough situations, never stay long ..... i some how tried to find a way out ..or may be I am lucky enough to find people who can pull me out of the situation very smoothly :)
CAUTION : Folks if you are not free and very busy read the remaining at your own risk ....
bcuz there will not be much interesting things for you below :P . so don't blame me if you don't like any of my life fundas or fall in love with me after reading all this lol
Funda 1
Never try to be happy !!
Just be happy. because, its your life and no matter what happens in your life, you are totally responsible for your next step :) .... so if you are happy its easy to take further steps :D
Funda 2
Never be sorry !
Being sorry and saying sorry are two completely different modes or phases.being Sorry-You are just thinking about what all went wrong || saying Sorry - You have realised what went wrong and are ready to correct it. Committing mistakes is quiet normal ... and while doing this knowingly or unknowingly we may hurt others or self .. never think too much to apologize, accept the bad in you in a proper way !!
Accept it and don't forget to correct yourself ....
Funda 3
Follow your hobby . Like every thing is important, enjoying life in the best way , is equally important.
keeping yourself busy with good things is so good and indeed entertaining. Feel free to learn things. if, you ever had a dream of learning to dance ,sing or whatever .. go ahead. because no one is ever that old for the learning process.
take some time to enjoy doing things that your heart loves to ..... because no one else can do that for us.
Funda 4
Don't be shy of expressing your self .feel free to talk out your heart when you like any thing .. feel free to compliment. don't think too much ..
"ya but do choose words carefully :P ;)" but never leave a chance to compliment others .because every one feels good about compliments. right !!.... feel free to sing and dance too... laugh out your heart as loud as possible :D.
Funda 5
Never search for mistakes in others ... don't find space to criticize others for the wrong causes (until and unless it is for their own good).. because ,what goes around comes around ...
Funda 6
Depressed ?? what has happened can never be changed.keep your self away from all those bad thoughts ...
Hard times come generally to test you to find out how harder you are.
think about all the positive things ,fill your head with maximum of nice memories. that is one of the best ways to be optimistic!!
as few say
" Remember the good in people Forget the bad ,is one way to be good ... "
Funda 7
Keep yourself calm in tough situation .... remember , no matter how big the argument be, it ends if one person could handle the situation with a calm mind and make the other person understand whats exactly went wrong !!
Funda 8
Don't be scared of anything :) , you can only live once............ make best out of every chance you get :) !!
" be very much serious about your work and opportunities until you face them (this is to be passionate ) ... once you are done with your work, relax !!do not think much about it or the result ( this is to face the results.. no matter what the result is. take failure and success in same way ) because success or failure both brings in many more opportunities where in you need a stable mind to face them again :-/
Funda 9
Fall in love when ever you want to. falling in love or feeling very good about some one or just liking someone trying to keep him /her happy ..... making some effort to make them smile .... keeps you very happy and i would rather say very energetic. you can always remain active and attentive mood to gather attention
Hmmm, while writing this blog I learnt one more funda of life - : generally things or situations are not that bad.its on us, how we take them ...For ME The day was hectic or i can say really tiring. but the coffee was good, "giggles" the last sip was really tasty or may be my mood has just changed the taste of coffee :)
here, i remember a nice quote , don't know who wrote it though :P
"Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. Love the people who treat you right. Forget about the ones who don't. Believe that everything happens for a reason."
well, here i conclude this blog , hope you liked it and even if you dint :P
have a long and lovely life and may god bless you ! All the best.
Loved your post. Very deep insights. How much gyam can a tasteless cup of coffee give! :}
ReplyDeleteLove your blog!
Tooo goood...Really nice...liked it a lott.....Awesome dear....superbbbb!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThe transition from student to a professional is the biggest challenge.... the trick is to enjoy every moment ....nice post
ReplyDeletenice post garima ji, some of those fundas mine though :) bt compiling it n blogin it,sharing aapka experience pretty gud!! wil help out youngr guys like me :)
ReplyDeletehey garima liked all ur 9 fundas they are pretty cool..keep going..all the best :)
ReplyDeleteGood one... I jus think how many of them you follow .. they are real tough ... I follow some of them but can't all... but yeah even if u carry out 4/9 you are jus awesome as a person.. anyways u r ... quiet but the u have lot in mind to put on paper... do put it and do express what you feel...
ReplyDeletenuvvu lovely raa......super like.....
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