FRAME IT, The RIGHT Way !

"We learn something every day, and lots of times it’s that what we learned the day before was wrong."
—Bill Vaughan

At times things take time to digest, don't they? Yes I agree it may be because of our bad appetite but at times its cuz.. the thing that we ate was very wrong and not the apt what we should have taken.

Somewhat similar thing comes up in life. Many times we face situations where we surround our self with so many questions and try answering them, and lots of confusions and contradictions and created in our head because of these situations, all together just for the one previous step we have taken earlier.

We frame different opinions based on our perceptions, and it’s all our nature which tempt us to grow these perspectives, be it on a task you are doing (like your planning /work), or a person or anything. It’s risky to take decisions without much analysis; I agree that decisions must be quick but they need to be smart ones, but again you need to have a strong heart and head to bare the result (just like a healthy stomach to digest whatever comes in).

I have a nice incident which I read the other day

------ There was a young couple with their 2 year old child travelling in a train, They were enjoying a lot talking about their plans while to break their conversation a old man entered the compartment with his boy who was of 25 in age. The couple started wondering at the behaviour of this boy, who was very excited about the journey. He took the seat near the window and was gazing out.

Boy : papa look out the fields are so green and those house are so colourful.

Dad : yes they look lovely.

Boy : papa look at those birds they are moving in groups.

Dad : yes dear they always do move in groups

Boy : papa look this is a river we are crossing the bridge.

and the old man kept up his smile. Unable to bare the confusion this couple asked the old men, if his son was mentally challenged.

The old man smiled and replied that his boy had recently gone through his eye operation, which was successful and now he is able to see.

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Surprising isn't it, at times we form so wrong opinions on people, without analysing or enquiring much. Life makes us face many such situations and we don't try to learn anything from them.

 If you have taken anything wrong which you are unable to digest, you do try out to eat something that makes condition better don't you? This is what we should do when it comes up with any of your decisions /opinions / steps anything that went wrong.

If you have framed up, some wrong opinion on someone and now that you know what you felt/done was wrong give yourself another try and make things up. Lifez too short for misunderstandings, If you want to correct something do it right away!

------Cheers

Garima Singh