Thursday, August 14, 2014

VRUKSHA

Long long ago or should I be saying Very long ago the world we live in was totally different from what we read or knew. It was far more beautiful, vast and completely natural.

God Graced mother Earth with strength of gravity, Charm of fire, covered it with partial land and rest with Oceans. By time and evolutions there were growth of different types of trees giving birth to large forests and in parallel other species starting from aquatic, amphibians, terrestrials and so on….. They all were living together, like they all belonged to each other as a family looking up to mother earth and father The Sun.

 Almost every living creature could communicate to each other they all had one common language.  That was the time when Humans and their descendants could speak to the forest or trees. Humans lived together in groups in forest.

Trees and man were friends, each of them natured the other. Plants asked Humans to protect them from a few animals in turn they returned the favor helping humans to feed their families.  Trees had the natural power to speak to winds and they gave the messages or warning to humans about any calamities.

Thus both of them had the need of each other and they stood by each other.

In those days there was a leader of a suburb named Manav who was very well known for his deeds and friend ship with the elderly  tree named Vat vriksha it was a banyan tree the head of the forest

They both had a great deal of connections and powers, with the help of which they ruled their kind. They shared their misery, happiness and life with each other.

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                                                One day Manav reached the bank of river where stood the Vat Vriksha and sat down very calm, throwing pebbles into river and staring at the ripples. This continued for few hours, Puzzled by the Situation Vat vriksha Asked his dear friend concerned to know what had happened.

Vatvriksha: Oh dear! Last time when we met, you were so joy full, pleased with your life, you told me there’s a surprise?
Well now you show up after many months and
look so upset, what is it? What went wrong?

Manav: Yes, there was a surprise, I met a girl … her name is Kaya. She is the most beautiful feminine of our kind, I have ever seen.

Vatvriksha: that’s delightful ,go on tell me more.

Manav: Last time when I met you I was going to ask for her hand. I was heading to meet her tribe and put forth the proposal.

Vatvriksha: So did her tribe reject your proposal?


Manav : No they accepted and I married her on the same day.

Vatvriksha: That’s magnificent, where is she I would like to meet her.

Manav: I too wanted her to meet you but…

Vatvriksha: But?

Manav : You see she is the most beautiful lady, certainly I wasn’t the one she wanted to get married to… I am not good enough for her.

Vatvriksha: You are underestimating yourself, you are one the most powerful and intelligent human I have ever known.

Manav : She doesn’t talk to me, I want to love her But I don’t understand her and its been 7 months, I feel violent, desperate, drained when she Ignores me.

Vatvriksha: Hmm and have you spoken about all these to her?

Manav : I don’t want her to consider me the weaker one. I have decided not to speak to her until she breaks the silences.

Vatvriksha: No wonder why you both couldn’t interact. My friend, Love isn’t about showing your ego, or knowing who is better of you both, its about understanding each other to lightening the burdens and love is the result of what you give not what you get.

She is far from her known ones give her time and your time too.

Manav: Have you ever been in love?

Vatvriksha: Yes! She was vivacious, one of her kind distinct creation, never been to any such tree before, was in love with her unique fragrance, her roots were very far from here but we spoke to each other all the time, Thanks to the wind we could  have very long conversations.
We pollinated with the help of birds and flies, she left me the seed of our timeless love as a token.

Manav : left the seed, don’t you talk to her now?

Vatvriksha: She was gone by the floods; there are things you cannot control. Take this seed and gift it to Kaya, tell her to germinate it under the blessings of lord Sun. May your love grows as the plant grow, take care of my son and name him RUDRA.

Next day kaya planted the seed beside her home, the plant started germinating and things started to fall in place in their life. The plant grew faster than any other plant.
Like its unique name “Rudra” the plant was unique, beautiful of all the trees, it gave different types of flowers and fruits as per season, it could hunt or injure the species who tried to harm it and could control storm or wind.


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After a few months the couple decided to visit Vatvriksha, Kaya seemed all fascinated about the young Rudra, she spoke about its growth and specialties and felts overwhelmed to have it. Where as Manav congratulates Vatvriksha to be proud father of such a tree with unique qualities.

                                    Later on they shared their yearning of having their own kid.  Vatvriksha suggested them to have faith in lord SUN and assured them that he would adjure whole forest to join in his orison(prayers) for their child. Soon they will have their own kid.

It’s true that God test our faith in both our contentment and sorrow. The Prayers continued for years. However every one seemed determined and continued their worship.

One night when Kaya was asleep she had a dream that listening to her enchantments lord sun appeared in front of her and granted all her wish. She asked “Lord I need your blessings I want a child the most beautiful ever born, the most strongest and powerful like you” God Sun replied “ I will accept your prayers and bless you with what you desire for, however, I would still like to know what else can you offer “ to which she closed her eyes and replied “ I swear my Almighty, I and this whole world belongs to you”

Finally the day arrived when Kaya gave birth to a very wonderful child, her beauty excelled, she was charming and powerful, her powers started unfolding when she started learning to speak she could stop or make it rain, vanish the clouds and when she danced the sun blazed on earth. They named her Vruksha  which meant 'Giver of rain, light or satisfaction'

Kaya couldn’t live longer to see her daughter grow old and further powerful. She died when Vruksha was 5 years old. Vruksha learnt to take care of Rudra just like her mother. She admired the qualities of Rudra, It filled her emptiness. She spent all her time along with the trees especially with Rudra.


As time passed the bond between these two grew stronger and amiable, Rudra loved the way Vruksha was changing physically and as a person she was quick, to learn things and as she shared almost every thought of her with Rudra. It made him think more like a human. He could control her emotional breakdowns whenever she was angry with her father or the nature. He never let her feel lonely. But Rudra couldn’t help himself as he was left alone in nights, he missed Vruksha and that was the time he talked to his father Vatvriksha about her and rest of the world. She made sure that she meet Rudra every day for same reasons.

            Rudra  developed interest about the changes that were going on with humans, he always stayed fascinated to hear things they developed for the betterment of their livelihood. Whereas Vruksha was always keen about what was going all around her suburb and nearby forests. They summarized what all they learnt and what all changed in past season in the end of every season.

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One Evening completing all her work Vruksha rushed to Rudra and started breathing hard and blabbering at the same time.

Vruksha: You know what, that Shantanu he married wheel, no he married to this Himavana  they took wheet no wheel no the Cart.

Rudra: All right my princess, take some time, breath some air, and then restart.

Vruksha: Hufff huhhhh

Rudra : Okay ?

Vruksha : Did I tell you about Himavana my friend from the neighbor hood ?

Rudra : Yes I heard about her that she left the tribe.

Vruksha : Yes but the essential part is she left on a Cart.

Rudra: what is Cart?

Vruksha : A few months back a visitor came to our area he was in search of cows or buffaloes . Some one gave him 2 cows in return of lots of different varieties of wood. He said he got it from many dead plants.

Rudra : I feel that’s a false story,I have heard some other version of it.

Vruksha: And this guy / visitor whose name is Shantanu build wheels with wood which is shape of orange and a cart which was similar like a small floor was attached to the wheels and is pulled by cows. Himavana is living with him from last day, he had asked for her hand.

Rudra : Well I have heard that many of humans are doing this and they have started to kill tree for its wood. I feel one must not kill us humans can use some part of us and help us to grow with the rest.

Vruksha : Yes, it’s really bad.  But no one is opposing them. Rather every one gathered there to wish him and accepted his proposal for Himavana.

Rudra: I never heard about any tree talking about opposing a human act.

Vruksha : But why ? you should be against to things that are harmful for your kind.

Rudra : I agree, I stay against, but most of us are believed to live with no laments.

Vruksha: And wouldn’t you oppose if they do this to you ? I can’t stand the thought of  not seeing you , My life would be so incomplete with out you.

Rudra: well you are too early, to judge your emotion once you get the man to live with you too would leave the tribe.

Vruksha : and never see you again?

Rudra : You can visit me.

Vruksha : how can you be so sure about me getting a man, how would I know someone would come in my life ,Or even if I even want to live with some one?

Rudra: Explore yourself a little and explore the world a little more you would get your answer.


Vruksha Stood there for a very long time looking at Rudra who was looking at the sky both were in immense agony of the thought of leaving each other.

Next few days passed with the same scene repeating itself. Vruksha approached Rudra while he never looked back at her all the time he kept calm , either closed his eyes or looked towards the sky.


As moon bloomed in the sky She would leave him with saying nothing. They dint spoke for months and it made Vruksha feel treacherous without committing any flaw.

She started weeping and then crying for days which caused heavy rains and storms, Rudra expanded his roots and branches and tried Maximum to oppose the storms but they were getting denser and stronger. Rudra Started Shouting out Vruksha’s name, and when she appeared before him, he took her in his arms lifted her up and he caressed her soothing her.



In a fraction of second Sun rays started touching the earth and everything became normal. But they were both still in the amalgamated state, So close and so intense that he could feel her pulse and she could feel the movement of water inside him.
They were in love and she belong to him. Rudra never wanted to let her go away from her and before he could say this he heard her saying “Never ask me to leave or go away from you”.

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                                    Manav was enraged when he came to know the whole saga, He was against to his daughter falling in love with a tree and living with it, but the whole forest tried to convince him that his daughter belonged to the forest. Manav wasn’t ready to believe that and felt humans are the one more superior and its not acceptable.

That night Manav decided to put things to end and he met Shantanu and asked him to kill Rudra. As he was unhappy with his daughter who wasn’t understanding his perceptions.

Shantanu agreed to that he went to Rudra and started cutting him down outrageously, Rudra didn’t defend himself he just called Vruksha’s name repeatedly his voice was going low by every minute, When Vruksha appeared to the scene, Shantanu let a fire and left it on Rudra, Vruksha was shocked to see all this and she jumped into the fire, they were burned to ashes.

This remained an untold story. However since then Humans were cursed that as they can’t protect the most powerful gift given to them from god, they would be subjected to all natural calamities, as they dint respect their elder trees there descendent or kids would offend them. Humans stood there apologizing to the forests and tree but since then on no tree spoke to human again…..


In all things of nature there is something of the marvelous,
 something very peaceful and beautiful, enjoy it, love it, stop being a demon by cutting them down…. be it trees, forest or  animal, we aren't far from extinction
Have some mercy! they all are valuable.




--Cheers 
Garima Singh 

Saturday, July 5, 2014

A long WAIT…..


No idea what's actually not falling in place but all the time it just feels like I am waiting on a platform . a railway platform which is though very crowded but makes me feel I am alone , a platform which is very busy , platform on which numbers of trains are arriving and getting departure people take those, to leave for there destination . I, however am still waiting for my train and its really been a long wait .
So long that it scares me to worst nightmares, making me think if I am late or if I am on the wrong platform and my train had left from some other platform . It feels am loosing my patience by time, and its depressing making me feel further hopeless, will my train ever be coming ?or how much more I need to wait, And what if I board a wrong train in all my frustration.




I am willing to stay with whatever i have and stay happy with patience only if what ever approaches me be the right thing to move on to next. But again who would apart from time can decide if my next step is right. waiting and hoping for the right result is often the toughest thing when you know you have been doing it as long as you can ...
-yet lets bear it !


~ Garima Singh


Thursday, March 27, 2014

Revamp & Restart

Did it ever happen to you that you want to listen to some music and then there are too much noises out side every where .. may be it seem good to others but you are unable to take that one, you just want to indulge in your own music. What do we do in such cases ? We try using head phones and increase the volumes so that we concentrate only to our piece and stay in our own world no matter even if this loud music strikes your ear a little, It seem manageable isn’t it ?

Often when we are depressed with our own set of problems we do the same thing, we close our ears even eyes to anything thats coming our ways …. 

Totally unsure but feels like I am hit by my quarter life crises again ..
 Its been more than 3 months now in this new city, However I am Unable to find friends or a job, yet I stay busy .. not just busy "very busy" ….. certainly for the same reasons as above ….And now I don’t go out of my way to make friends as I always did , It often leads to disappointment, people are so busy or may be not ... Some time I feel as if  people are scared of each other that they have stopped speaking they keep them selves busy with gadgets … gadgets and gadgets everywhere they are  more important than person sitting beside.
I don't know how many of you have noticed but often people don’t react even if the person is trying to speak to them … They just don’t seem to be looking forward , and one person can't  go on hitting the ICE to break silence. 

Anyways Digging too hard into the feeling of why thing not falling in right place I realized that I have really increased the volume of music louder enough to hurt my ears, I need to assure that people who want to explain me things, & help me out are heard properly. and If something consistently irritates us about someone or something , then thats a high point to understand ourself on that particular aspect. Its not always necessary that problem retains on the other end. 


Lets revamp and give things another SHOT ! Well I can’t let circumstances change me :-/ 



Though I have heard too many times the saying “ don’t waste too much time in thinking or else we end up thinking too much and doing nothing “ 
It doesn’t strikes our head while we are actually wasting our time. lol


Cheers
~Garima ~

Tuesday, March 11, 2014

Start being fair, being fairer isn’t that necessary !!!!


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Miss A : You are such a talented dancer and you are on side stage 

Miss B : Oh dear what can I do,Its my fate, this dark complexion. :(

Miss A : Tadaaaa take this cream use for 30 days 
and see what wonder can it do 

 Conclusion : - Miss B becomes centre of attraction after using the beauty product.

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Mr H shows all his talent in acting, but no Director or People acknowledge his hard work and all of a sudden, Mr S comes in the scene..... saying "you need this beauty product" … and TADAAA Mr H becomes a Super star

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Another similar one with a enthusiastic cricket commentator , who then becomes fair, only to bag a job as commentator beside K Srikkanth. 
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One more One more … A guy being the interviewee can ask questions to his interviewers and impress them only because he is fair … and his fairness gives him super confidence to do so…. how funny 

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And the last one

A guy breaks up with his long time girlfriend to find a new one, and then when he find his X who eventually becomes fair post using some beauty fairness cream finds out that he still love her …. Man Awful…..

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We have been seeing such commercial day after,  Its not that I am offending people who are fair , or those who use such beauty products, but only one question hits hard to my head over and over again, when I see such concepts being used in commercials  which are frequently telecasted. 

I mean .. what sense that concept makes, where you show that a dancer, if has a lil darker complexion doesn’t fit good for being on centre stage ??? or if a girl has dull wheatish skin can’t be a good commentator, And your color makes it all to big screens or gives you confidence …. this is all nothing but a weird state of making color discrimination. Color has nothing to do with your confidence nor with your talent neither with any relation ship , No Idea why indians or may be huge set of people mad about the fairer looking skin.

WANTED BRIDE WITH VERY FAIR COMPLEXION

Ever gone through a male matrimonial ad.. 80 to 85 % have this line in common out of rest 15%, 10% would omit the word VERY but rest would certainly be included. No matter what complexion the guy carry.. and ahaaaaan this is not for the groom or for their prestige its issue with the next generation … the next breed needs to be fair, No matter if they are stubborn or ruthless yet fair is must. I wonder who will talk about the colors in future decades though, but yes color in current generation is a very big criteria.

 Come on! THE NEW GENERATION when are we going to change our thinking on this aspect?

As most of us prefer kajol over any other heroine, no matter if she is dark, she is talented and super kool on the screen.  I can skip a katrina’s movie but kajol would never be a miss. 
Just like when we make new friends we don’t set criterion of looks, here what matters is bonding and nature of the other person, why doesn’t the same thing been carried well in other cases?

Anyways I really hope some day things would change and even our mindset.




Non of us can evade discrimination it starts as soon as you see yourself in mirror, its says this is you and they are all there who come in others, however we can definitely avoid difference we don’t live in mirror, we are not reflections we all are humans.
--Gary



Cheers :)
Garima Singh

~Beauty lies within~




Thursday, February 13, 2014

The Wrapper

Often being judgmental is so facile that we tend to be so. You see a person, and then you observe him of her for quiet some time and try making out, how and what the person is like (strangers are not included in this case) ! This is totally normal too and an art of being human. We decide things based on some instincts some pre assumed perceptions may be.

But what if you are allowed to be with this person for more than provided time, Say long long time , May be in initial few days we will still go with the primitive practice of framing up the characteristics of this person and sketching in filling, colors putting stress on our head checking out things apart from looks - Certainly Behaviour comes first in the row which Often stays normal and actuals, after the first few hours, how they react in different situation, their high and lows, angers and ambiguities, stress and pains , pressure and pleasures.

I agree that understanding a complete stranger takes loads of time and effort, or may be not as time passes. And as time moves on you move on to a more comfortable zone where feeling are replaced by there behavior, For you what this person feels become more crucial than how he/ she behaves.


Concluding here … as the journey never ends and the point you start introspection its start of another phase ;)



“ Never decide the taste of a candy or importance of the gift by checking the wrapper, cuz neither the aroma, sweetness and the pleasure of having it be felt till the wrapper is unfold”  


Cheers 

Garima Singh
Things are not always as they seem; the first appearance deceives many.

&  (though I offend a single day being celebrated for love ) Happy Valentines day :D